call me crazy, but posting your opinion online and then saying “and if you disagree, unfollow me” is...unproductive. is this an unpopular opinion? maybe, but i’m sharing it anyway, because that’s the point of the internet.
do y’all know about something called group polarization? it’s a social psychology term. here’s the wikipedia definition: “the tendency for a group to make decisions that are more extreme than the initial inclination of its members.”
what does that mean? it means that when groups of people who all have the same ideas hang out and discuss said ideas, their opinions on those ideas becomes much stronger as a group than each person individually may feel. you end up getting real pissed at the opposition even if you previously fell sort of in-between on the subject.
group polarization is an echo chamber. everyone is having the same opinion, and it just keeps getting louder.
asking someone who disagrees with you to unfollow does exactly that. it breeds a group of followers for you who all agree with everything you say and all the policies you support and all the people you protect. and it’s great to identify those people, but that doesn’t make any change at all. those aren’t the people you need to convince.
if you’re trying to make a difference - if you’re trying to actually change minds - the opposition is precisely who you should be addressing.
TL;DR: stop asking those who disagree with you to unfollow you. instead, use your platform and their attention to spread good ideas and researched information. don’t avoid the problem. address the problem.














