#guy help

[vpyre]

IM AT WORK RIGHT NOW AND YOURE TELLING ME SWISS FUCKING GRABBED PERPETUA BY THE NECK AND KISSED HIM IM AT WORK RN AND YOURE TELLING ME THEY KISSED. A SOLID KISS. NOT A PECK. HE GOT GRABBED AND FUCKING KISSED AND IM AT WORK AND I HAVE TO SIT HERE AND DO MY STUPID LITTLE TASKS KNOWING THAG HAPPENED ARE YOU KIDDONG MEEEEE

[justlivinglifeandbeingconfused]

Can anyone help me figure out if this guy actually likes me? Honestly I am so lost why are men so confusing and why do I overthink everything

[caniliewithyou]

So this guy I was obsessed with in college just start to follow me on Instagram. Do I follow back? Do I wait to see if he likes any of my stuff? What do I do? Please send help.

[broskie3]

I’d rather be super duber extreamly unreasonably horny than sad omg plsssss

[psyche-study]

friend help?

so, i called out my friend for juuling, but he wanst actually juuling. he was using a monq, which is a sort of aromatherapy thing that looks like juuling (its not harmful or addictive or anything of the sort; it’s quite the opposite) point is, i thought he was juuling, and because he was mad at life in general, he let me think he was juuling just to get me to leave him alone. i left him alone, and he texted me with an explanation later. i apologized for the misunderstanding, and he said he wasn’t mad at me, but the way he’s acting towards me is definitely a “i’m mad at you don’t talk to me” mood. the thing is, he’s a really good friend, and he needs close friends as well. i don’t know how to make things right between us again. :( help?

[disgustingng]

do guys shave their legs like you all have no leg hair and I wanna know your magic tricks

[livinginlongdistance-blog]

Could it get any harder

Im pissed, she’s sad, i have car problems she has toe problems and we are in long distance relationship on the verge of collapse from literally only stress.  As you can see being in a relation is not all fun and games, let alone in a normal relationship. when the going gets hard then get harder and harder. you start to feel like everything is just going to blow up and maybe even loose you special other. But have no fear this is normal!!! here are 5 tips to dealing with really hard but easy stuff when everything is going wrong.

1. Take a chill pill.

one of the most overlooked aspects to when stuff gets overly heated is to just take a second, make a joke, have a short side conversation about how darn crazy the war in Syria is. Then get back to the nitty-gritty

2. Complement 

when your other is upset or your upset. If you can find it in yourself to complement hair, apparel or really anything, it will lower tensions

3. Listen

An often mistake in most fights or arguments is the lack of communication between both parties. if you are able to suck it up and not say anything while the other is talking, no matter how Ludacris his or her words are, you will be way better of in the long run.

4. Don't blow things off

When things get heated try your best to resolve it or get to a place in the argument where it can be easily resolved. By putting off fights and arguments you are only setting yourself up for disaster. If the argument has had to much time to fester in both your minds your argument will escalate to levels it really didn't need to. 

5. Makeup, however that might be.

in a long distance relationship, this is hard because the usual go to is usually make up sex. But there are alternatives such as cute talking, reminiscing on old memories, compliments, small surprises. also my favorite; the surprise uber eats delivery.