#guy issues

[corythesaxon]

I think it’s so weird how history is repeating itself. Like, my freshman year of high school I had guy issues. And for my college freshman year I have guy issues. Y’all.

[static-behind-green-eyes]

I've been pacing my room for the past few hours, mulling over past conversations I've had with the guy I like and I can't for the life of me figure out if we're just giving each other shit or flirting or what! And it's been driving me absolutely up the fucking wall because if it is flirting then heck yeah I'm okay with that. But like it'd suck if it wasn't but I'd be okay with that as well. It's a funny dynamic we have. But like even my friends can't tell because they don't know him as well as I do.

He does treat me differently then his other friends, I think. I don't see him act the way he does around me, with his other friends... This is driving me absolutely up the wall and I can't stand it. But I'm too nervous to actually pull up the courage to ask him what's between us.

[ddreammcatcher]

Lauren: Hey Jamie, I have a problem. I have two guys in my life and neither of the situations are good. What should I do?

Jamie: Um, why should I know

Me: Because you're a guy.

Jamie: True, but I also date guys so...

Conversations I have at work

[patrick-fucking-hockstetter]

❝when a guy hits you up acting all sweet only to ask for nudes in the same fucking day❞ 

~ a very pissed off female

[emotionalrants-dot-killme]

Crushes

This guy who was like a brother to me, maybe a little less than… actually, he was more like a wierd, hardened greaser of a father figure than anything. Anywho, he used to be a friend, maybe a close friend. My emotions always sat on the fence with him honestly, because his overbearing personality annoys me. Well, he did the most uncomfortable confession over the course of two days, and gave me a song. I mean, it was sweet, and somewhat flattering, but due to personal experiences i feel totally uncomfortable and unsafe around him now. He just.. kind of started doing those things guys do when they like you, like puppy dog following, or bringing up their feslings about you repeatedly. Also, because its nearly impossible not to, he has changed his behavior (i mean, of course). His interactions with me are very uncomfortable, and its as if he thinks we’re dating? I dont like romance in general, people turn me off. Not that i really have an on switch..

This is more of a “me” thing than anything. I should be flattered i guess. I shouldnt be disdainful towards him, and we should stay friends. Because as my parents keep telling me, im “a beautiful young girl who is blessed with a cult following of boys. You should be flattered!”. I get it. I should be appreciative. And… it feels nice knowing im wanted i guess.. i just dont really care if they want me or not. Its flattering when people say im attractive, but i get so god damned uncomfortable with the people who do it. They get in my personal space and try to touch me, or take my free time, and pressure me into “just giving them a chance”. Uugh

[thatoverachiever]

Why can't people just be open with their feelings? I'm so confused!

[scoobreiburg]

Body Hair. Can It Be Shaved

Bc I'm new to all this shit I don't actually know if it's ok for guys to shave their body hair. Is that ok or is it a strict no no? At first I thought like "cool! Body hair!" But now it's just kind of like "ok that's really annoying and kind of unappealing wtf WHY BODY. WHY MUST YOU GROW ALL THIS SHIT EVERYWHERE. NO. FINISH EVOLVING FROM THE APE ALREADY." What do you guys think?

[supernatural-mermaid]

I'm so done.... I deserve to be treated better then that.

It had its fun times but just can't do it anymore. I deserve to be treated better. I deserve to have someone who actually makes me feel wanted.