#guyhayniac

[krissyfolk]

guyhayniac replied to your post:Also, having a bag of reese’s at the bottom of my...

I don’t either I rather eat all day

let be real, its one of my favorite things 

[dogearedheart]

Hey, so I just found out that a really good friend of mine, Wesley, (you may know him as guyhayniac) committed suicide. I really wish I was there to help him when he needed it. Unfortunately, I wasn't. Knowing that I could've been the one to save him and I wasn't there really kills me inside. I wish with all my heart that there was a way that I could bring him back and let him know how much I love him. He was such a sweet, kind, and caring person. I can only imagine what his friends and family may be going through right now. All of my heart and prayers go out to his family and friends today. As for Tiff, I didn't know who she was until I heard that she was no longer with us. I wish I had the opportunity to know her, she seemed like an amazing person. My love and prayers still go out to her friends and family, as well. I'm crying as I'm writing this and the hurt I feel can only be described as loss. I pray that God heals all of the wounds brought on by the loss of these two beautiful people.

[washedawayinasummerrain]

To Hayniacs (A Reflection On This Week)

Hey. So, I've never said anything about what has happened to us this past week. Instead of focusing on losing two of our family, I want to say this:

You do not need to blame yourself.

Why?

Because losing them is not your fault. Other people's pain is never your fault. Do not try and say that you didn't tell them that you cared about them enough. By simply acknowledging their presence on this planet in a respectful and positive way, you have shown them kindness and they noticed.

Also, the best thing you can do in the midst of loss is to not let those we have lost be forgotten. This includes not letting them be forgotten and lost amongst the pain you feel now. Never let the voices of those who felt their voices were never heard be forgotten about. This, I believe, is the greatest way to honor those lost: keep speaking about them positively. Remember good things about them. Let the good memories you have of them affect your lives positively.

John Green said this about dealing with pain in his novel The Fault In Our Stars. I cannot find better words myself nor do I think I could come close to finding better words: "The good times and the bad times both will pass. It will pass. It will get easier. But the fact that it will get easier does not mean that it doesn't hurt now. And when people try to minimize your pain they are doing you a disservice. And when you try to minimize your own pain you're doing yourself a disservice. Don't do that. The truth is that it hurts because it's real. It hurts because it mattered. And that's an important thing to acknowledge to yourself. But that doesn't mean that it won't end, that it won't get better. Because it will."

Let yourself miss Wes and Tiff. Let yourself cry a little. Then laugh a little. Cry some more. Laugh more. Laugh more than you cry because you know that while missing them means that you cared about them, it does not mean everything. Don't let them be forgotten among your own pain, which is important, but it will pass because it is not everything.

Rest in paradise, Tiff and Wes.

[dreamsandcoffeecups]

Thank you for the support, especially tonight.

I'm having a really rough night.

[bubzybugz]

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I wonder why I think of Wesley when I listen to this I just do. I'll spead my wings and I'll learn how to fly I'll do whatever it takes till I touch the sky. That's the part that got me. We miss you Wes and never stop loving you

[bubzybugz]

Listening to BreakAway and I'm listening to the lyrics and it reminds of Wesley =[ Makes me more depressed now

[bubzybugz]

To Hayniacs who were friends with Wes

Dear Hayniacs who were best/friends with Wesley you gotta hang in there. It is painful the pain will never fade. But you just gotta hang in there loves. Like Hunter sang And then all that you've got left is being strong,Gotta find a little faith to fall back on Listen to those words You have to have faith but first you gotta find it(My quote). Hang in there I'm here for you my ask is always open