hellooo robin !!!! thinking today about u domming ume <3 and how turned on he'd get by it, how much he'd like being the one told what to do bc he trust you to know his limits and know what he likes -- in ur opinion, what's the thing he'd like the most abou that dynamic? and what's your fav thing about domming him? :D
rain oh my gawddddddddd 😵💫 this is frying my brain (in the best way) ksnfjfjdkskkndnd
so ume’s favorite part about this is probably being able to turn off his brain a little bit. i think there’s a part of him that wants to just… be. like he wants to slip into a state of bliss where everything is wonderful and he can just exist for a little while without having to fight for it. not that he doesn’t enjoy working for things/putting in effort, or that he feels particularly over-burdened by things in life, but there’s still just an inherent part of him that i think wants to let go sometimes and exist in this peaceful state that he doesn’t really have to facilitate himself ykwim???
so yeah i think when he’s really in the mood for this he just wants to be told what to do and/or just let me do as i please for the most part!!! tbh in our ship i hc that he has some moments where free use/cnc is rather appealing to him, so the idea of being “used” for pleasure gets him off sometimes. there’s a people-pleasing streak in him that really comes out to play!! so he gets a lot of satisfaction not only from the physical pleasure he gets but from seeing me get mine as well (and same when sakura’s involved hehe)
as for my favorite thing….. sheesh idk it’s all too good!!!!! but i guess maybeeee… just seeing him get in contact with that fundamental part of himself? the part that wants to “numb out” for a bit and really melt into someone else. i love it when he gets so extra pliant and trusting and when i can just see that he’s fucking lost in the sauce; in la la land even if he’s being edged or “used”
(tho i will note that i don’t envision myself being really “mean” with him all that often lmao he’s not like some of my other brats. there’s definitely some room for teasing and a taste of some “harder” elements depending on the mood/scenario, but yeah i’d say there’s generally a milder vibe overall and i’m not gonna be unleashing the brat tamer hardcore LOL)