#hajimem

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Jing Yuan shares his favorite readings/books with you. In between the pages of the books he lends you are pressed flowers as bookmarks. They’re little surprises he makes and hides just for you to find.

Umemiya loves gardening right? The longest he goes without giving you something from his garden is 7 days. He shows up on average every 3 days with any yields he has. Checks up on you, checks up on your own plants, and fixes anything he can.

Aww, Fifi, these are so sweet 🥲

I really like the idea of Jing Yuan leaving pressed flowers for me in the books he lends me!

And Ume regularly checking up on me and bringing me veggies is so canon to me! 🤭 He's a fixer at heart, I just know it

Thank you so much for playing!! 💗💗💗

Send me any headcanons you have for my self-ships!

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i hc that tickle fights are big in the hajimem house....winner gets to pick dinner >:3 (haji wins and still lets you pick bc he feels bad)

Not the tickle fights!! Because you know he would! 😂

Problem is that I'm so so ticklish - Hajime would win every single time because I fold like a wet napkin the instant he runs his fingers over my ribs. He'd better be feeling bad and let me pick dinner or I'm gonna pout 🤭

Thank you so much for playing!! 💗💗💗

Send me any headcanons you have for my self-ships!

[madam-mem]

Hi Mem! Here for the selfship game!

🤎 do you have any tender, domestic, and/or soft moments you've experienced with your f/o that mean a lot to you?

⭐️ do any smells remind you of your f/o? (e.g. lavender, clean laundry, strawberries, etc.) what about sounds? (e.g. ocean waves, laughter, rain, etc.)

Hi Steph!! thank you so much for stopping by!! 💗💗💗

You didn't specify a ship so I'm going with Umemiya again just because he deserves more content from me 🤭

🤎 do you have any tender, domestic, and/or soft moments you've experienced with your f/o that mean a lot to you?

I generally love turning everyday moments into something a little bit more magical. Like chatting or singing along to the radio while folding laundry, or dancing while cleaning. Hajime tends to pick up one of our cats and carry her around on his shoulders so she can help with dusting. Riri loves being a scarf, but only with Hajime

But this isn't about Riri. One of my favorite moments is cooking with Hajime. I love it so much. We usually have some music going so there's always one of us humming or singing along. Whoever is at the stove usually gets back hugs and neck kisses too. You can almost taste the love in the food. Except for when we lose track of time and it ends up a lil bit burnt 🤭

⭐️ do any smells remind you of your f/o? (e.g. lavender, clean laundry, strawberries, etc.) what about sounds? (e.g. ocean waves, laughter, rain, etc.)

Ohh for smells it has to be petrichor! Especially when he comes back inside from having watered the garden on summer evenings. Hajime also often has that clean laundry smell too. I don't know how he does it! I cannot for the life of me get my clothes to smell the same, even though we use the same damn detergent!

When it comes to sounds, I'm having trouble picking between laughter and soft snoring. I looove listening to Hajime laugh, but the soft little snores he lets out when he falls asleep while reading -so partially propped up, chin on his chest- are so cute too 🥰 Terrible for his back though, so I usually wake him up after a minute or so, so he can settle in properly

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🫧🕯️💌 for the selfship ask game!!~

Hi Lume!! Thank you so much for playing! These were really fun to answer! 😚💗💗💗

🫧 how does your f/o take care of you when you're sick? how do you take care of your f/o when they're sick?

Hajime mostly just keeps an eye on me when I'm sick. I'm generally pretty good about eating and drinking, so he just needs to refill my water bottle, make whatever food I feel like, and otherwise just let me sleep it off. But he makes sure to tell me (often) that he's ready to entertain me once I feel like I've slept enough.

When Hajime is sick, however, it's a disaster. He's the type who refuses to stay in bed, even when he has a fever. It's not that bad, I just need to walk it off he says and then almost falls down the stairs when his legs give out. I need to keep an eye on him to make sure he actually rests. I'm not above laying on top of him to make him stay in bed. And if that means that I'll be used as a teddy bear for a few hours while he (finally) naps? Oh well ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

🕯️ do you wear your f/o's clothes? do they wear yours? what's your favorite piece of clothing to steal from them? what's their favorite piece of clothing to steal from you?

I absolutely do wear his clothes! It's one of my favorite things to wear his discarded clothes since they smell like him 🤭 I tend to go for shirts and hoodies just because I don't need to worry about them being too big

I think Hajime wants to be able to wear some of my clothes too, but they're just a little bit too small for him. He doesn't want to risk stretching them out so he has to make do with things like scarves and knitted caps in winter. He's told me before that wearing my scarf, especially if I've just taken it off and it's still warm, is something very special to him 💗

💌 if your f/o wrote you a letter, what would their writing style be like? what is their handwriting like? would they use fancy stationary? maybe normal notebook paper? what about a wax seal? (if your f/o has already written you a letter (or letters!), describe what the letter was like!)

I think Hajime's letters would be written on notebook paper, just thoughts quickly scribbled down before his mind moves onto something else. No fancy stationary, no wax seals, regular white envelopes. His handwriting can be difficult to read at times since he favors speed over legibility. Sometimes there's an additional note on the back of an old, faded receipt shoved into the envelope. BUT! The letters always come with a dried flower or two.

Soft f/o ask game