#handlingsuccess

[adorkyweirdo]

People Insulting Your Successes

In life, whatever you do, you will ALWAYS BE JUDGED! And yes, also in your successes! I sometimes can't believe that people will go that far and make that kind of mentality just to weigh you down.

Some people will say horrible things whether you are physically or not physically around them and it is kinda depressing at first. Instead of you feeling happy and enjoy with your endeavors, you feel sad because of what other people say! It deteriorates your self-esteem.

I learned that it doesn't matter. I learned that you should focus on those people who support you in your successes and comfort you in your defeats. I learned that it is okay to feel the pain for this pain can be converted to a strength in due time for you to prove yourself that you can get through it and be stronger. In short, life will always be better and it will come around eventually.

For I smile and laugh even I am currently push away the pain until that pain completely fades away. For be humble, honest, and contented so that you will have a more productive and happy life. For success isn't always rainbows and roses at at the same time easy to achieve but it is a reward and a glorious fruit due to heart-willed labor, hard-work, dedication, perseverance, and all things wonderful that you should be proud of. :)

[adorkyweirdo]

Handling Success

Success is a thing you should be proud of. It can be attained through achievement, luck or whatsoever. It is true that we must own, take, accept and love that moment of success but we must show it in a manner that is humble and decent.

I had a lot of mistakes on how to act when I attain my success. I tend to show my reaction on my success in a super happy manner by shouting and doing crazy dances but I do not have the intention to show off because I am just expressing my happiness towards that moment.

I noticed that kind of reaction pushed some people in the wrong way unintentionally and at the end of the day I feel guilty that I let my damn ego raise beyond the roof of my own mind.

I learned that I should be showing my happiness towards my success in a more sensible way like a simple decent smile gesture in order to not hurt anyone's feelings or push anyone's buttons. If it doesn't work, don't stop being decent and humble about it because it is the best thing on how you can act on it.

I am now practicing this kind of approach not because for others to like me but because it is something that I should learn and it must be drilled to the very core of my own personality. The will of change can be a powerful thing though dedication by heart and unending persistence.

The bottom-line is that simply be humble and use your success as a tool for you to be a better person not only to yourself but to others as well. Also, use it to inspire yourself and others to attain greater success and milestones in your life and to the lives of others as well. :)