Nov 30, 2018
handsomewitch replied to your post “So, I'm a #meangirl”
you're a cupcake
I am a fierce warrior! I am of the North!
I would like a cupcake though...
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handsomewitch replied to your post “So, I'm a #meangirl”
you're a cupcake
I am a fierce warrior! I am of the North!
I would like a cupcake though...
handsomewitch replied to your post “ineedarendezvous replied to your post “I had the weirdest argument...”
when I see photos of celebrities with washboard abs all I can really think about is how they're probably dehydrated in that photo and they've been eating nothing but steamed chicken and kale for a week
I like how it always comes back to food with you.
handsomewitch replied to your post “Twice now over the past year in real life conversation I have had...”
That's pretty much the argument of most trans women (that all women have different socialisation) so you're just articulating it from your own perspective, which sounds pretty fine to me
Okay, thank you. I worried a little bit that it came across as “let me make the marginalization of trans women about me”, which was not what I was trying to do.
handsomewitch replied to your post “It is 4:30 in the morning and I am reading a Mad Max Fury Road coffee...”
go to sleep but also which one
Blood, Coffee, & Motor Oil, you need to be logged in to ao3 to read it.
handsomewitch replied to your post “handsomewitch replied to your post “This site doesn’t do nuance well,...”
basically I feel that young trans men are actively discouraged from engaging with their maleness and becoming healthy, kind, well adjusted men with awareness of their privilege, in favour of performing femininity and believing that makes them "safe"
and the whole "women and femmes" thing does very little to combat that
I have noticed the pressure for trans men to conform to the “uwu soft boy” thing regardless of who they actually are. thank you for expanding upon your meaning.
(I find the woman and femmes thing deeply confusing in most situations where people use it.)
handsomewitch replied to your post “This site doesn’t do nuance well, so please don’t reblog this”
the "all masculinity is toxic masculinity" seems to mostly hurt butch lesbians even within white circles tbh? I have my own thoughts on how it affects trans guys but butches get it really bad
the whole butch lesbians have privilege and are just as “fundamentally toxic” as men for being masculine thing is kind of part of what led me down this pathway, because that’s freaking ridiculous.
I would like to hear your thoughts on how this affects trans men, if you would like to share them, but of course, if you don’t want to talk to me about this you don’t need to.
handsomewitch replied to your post “so, as it turns out CMMB might be either in or hoping for a poly...”
that's rude as fuck regardless
Yes, there were def better ways to handle this on his part.
clockworkpipedreams replied to your post “so, as it turns out CMMB might be either in or hoping for a poly...”
What a shitter :( Are the ''might'' and ''may have'' an affectation or is the source for this unreliable? (sorry I'm bad at telling that sort of thing sometimes)
It’s a case of I’m pretty damn sure that’s what is going on, as are multiple other folks I trust, but since I didn’t hear it directly from CMMB it’s technically speculation. (No need to be sorry. :) )
handsomewitch replied to your post: He treats me as if I’m clever and my opinions...
He’s also very much correct.
*blush* Thank you friend.