was i wrong to defend my friend
okay let me just get this out I have Aspergers syndrome wich is a mild form of autism I was diagnosed when I was five years old , but my parents never put me on any medication, but I'm going to track here every second Thursday I go to a club for young adults with autism and yesterday was one of those days, however, yesterday something happened my best friend who's name I will not mention told me about this guy out at the activity center she goes to, and how he wouldn't stop bothering her he kept saying the were boyfriend and girlfriend even though she didn't like him and kept saying they weren't she told me she didn't like him because he kept watching these videos on youtube of horrible accidents with people getting hurt or something worse it was as he relished in their pain or something when I asked her if she had gotten help from teachers she told me they were too busy with the others fast forward to an hour later my friend decides to go home and leaves Meanwhile, I'm on the lookout for this little twerp who's been harassing my best friend half and hour later one of the volunteers points him out for me, and I see he's about to leave, and I go after him I catch up to him in the hallway, and this twerp is not very tall he's about 1 or 2 centimeters taller than me I tell him in as calm a voice as I can muster to stay away from my friend and to stop saying that they are a couple, wich they are not, and you know that this little dips... does he starts saying that it's my best friend through 16 years who's been lying to me he claims that it's her who wants to be a couple, of course, I can see through that big fat lie cause I know my friend, she can not lie about such a serious issue and I call him out on it he then threatens me by saying he would throw the rest of the contents of the beer bottle in his hand in my face i then tell him that that could be seen as assault and then i would have every right to defend myself he then flips me the bird and walks back into the room where everyone else is for the theme of that night wich was karaoke I follow shortly after when I enter the room one of the other volunteers walks up to me with him right behind and ask what all that was about I tell him that I was defending my friend the boy then flips me off again and the man takes him away from me I then walk back to my chair and a female volunteer then walks up as ask what happened I start to tell her and the boy starts walking up towards me flipping me off over and over and calls me a bi... several times the lady stands in the way and makes sure he doesn't get anywhere near me the male volunteer from before starts pulling him away but the boy get loose from his grip and flips his s... he throws the beer bottle on the ground so hard it shatters the male volunteer grabs him by the arms and the boy then kicks a table so hard a glass falls off and breaks he gets free from the grasp of the volunteer once more and pushes a chair so it falls to the side one of the girls at the other end of the room where the karaoke stage was screams, and the music stops the male volunteer, and another male volunteer grabs the boy and escort him out of the room when he's gone I realize something i was as cool as an iceberg the whole time I didn't even flinch when he threw the bottle on the ground not even once did I flinch or lose my temper for once I was the one with the long fuse even when all the other volunteers come up and ask me if I'm okay as if I'm shaking like a leaf I just kept saying I'm cool
so here's my question to all of you was it wrong for me to stand up for my friend
update I just found out today that my friend got in trouble because of what I did apparently the day after I told the jerk off he went up to my friend in the activity center and started cursing up a storm once the teachers got them separated they asked what happened and my friend told them that she told me and they remembered me for having a bad temper (I kinda forgot to say that I used to be in that same activity center for about 2 years before i just stopped going there) and thought I had started yelling at him for no good reason and got angry at her for something I did I should be the one to get yelled at not her she didnt tell me to defend her and she got in trouble anyway so now she is kinda mad at me cause she thinks I lost my temper and yelled at him wich I didn't
