🐍 Subtle Harmonia Worship 🫒
Practice healthy conflict resolution skills; learn about what healthy conflict resolution looks like
Make peace with others; apologize to people you've wronged
Make peace with yourself; learn to forgive yourself for your past mistakes, this will take some time
Be gentle with yourself, especially when you're struggling emotionally or physically
Get a candle that reminds you of her (no altar needed)
Wear jewelry that reminds you of her
Keep a picture of her in your wallet
Practice having more empathy towards others; put yourself in their shoes, try to see from their perspective
Practice making compromises with others; we can't always have everything our way, but neither can others, and that's ok; we can try to find ways around that
Have a snake or dragon stuffed animal; have a stuffed animal of any animal you associate with peace, harmony, or balance
Have imagery of intertwined snakes, necklaces, or wine (pools); (UPG here, there's not much info on symbols) have imagery doves, olive branches, clear still water, harmony, peace, or tranquility
Taking time to ground yourself, especially if you notice that you're not feeling mentally well; focus on your breathing, notice small things in your environment, remind yourself that you are ok, etc.
Sit outside for a bit and just allow yourself to exist in your environment; listen to the bird singing, the wind through the trees - that sort of thing
Work on not engaging in gossip or drama (venting is different from gossip; please continue to seek help and support when you need it 💚)
Keep a journal about good things that happen throughout your day; try to write in it daily with just random things that made you smile or caught your attention in a positive sense
Watch videos about humans helping other humans or animals; actively seek out positive news about the world
Watch a wholesome comfort movie
Engage in random acts of kindness; complimenting others, holding the door for someone, helping someone carry something, etc.
Volunteer for any cause that strives to help others in tough situations
Donate to or support organizations that fight for human wellness/rights or animal wellness/right, or homeless and animal shelters
Cook a meal with olive oil
Cook a warm meal for someone in need; cook a meal for your loved ones
Make yourself a warm, relaxing drink to start or end the day
Instead of killing bugs, take them outside; use no-kill traps; treat your fellow creatures with mercy
Feed neighborhood cats, dogs, or birds; be kind to strays
Spend time with your loved ones
Practice walking away from heated arguments instead of engaging (inform the other person that you'd like to talk when you're both in a clearer mental space); practice taking space from intense situations when you need it
Learn more about emotional regulation; try to find healthy vents for anger and upset (this takes a lot of practice, and that's ok)
When you find that you feel happy, notice that feeling and try to sit with it for a bit; take time recognize how you feel in your body when you're happy; allow yourself to enjoy the feeling
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I may add more later on, but we'll see! For the time being, this is my list of discreet ways to worship Harmonia. I hope it helps someone! Harmonia definitely deserves more attention than she gets. Take care, y'all! 💚
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