@ the noncanon kins who seem to suffer because they're noncanon : I don't know if this is gonna make you feel better but hey, it's worth a try. (Also english isn't my first langage so if this sucks well, I'm sorry.)
Of course I miss my canonmates and sourcemates ; who wouldn't miss their friends, their family, their lover(s)? But you know who I also miss dearly and foolishly hope to find someday? My noncanon adopted daughter. My noncanon buddies. That one noncanon man with round glasses and thick curly hair who sat at the table right next to mine with his black coffee and trusty newspaper every morning at the nearby café.
I'd love to talk to them again. I'd love to hear about their irl present self, I'd love to know how they're doing. I often wonder where they are, if they even got a second chance at life like I did. I think about them a lot.
I think what I'm trying to say is, you never know. Maybe someone out there misses you dearly, just like I miss all of these people. Maybe there are 'canon' kins out there who remember you. Maybe there are other noncanon kins who remember you. You matter and you're important to this community, so please, please don't feel too bad about who you were/are. You are valid and loved, I promise you. — (Raimiverse) Harry Osborn.