Haru Shimizu
I got a message from the female who is with my ex, claiming some interesting things that aren’t true. Oddly enough, I don’t even know why I was contacted in the first place...but it’s funny how things come to be claimed as “something that only happened under threat of suicide”.
I have to laugh at that. He broke up with me through texting, when he was across the street from me, after going through my phone on Valentine’s Day. He would constantly tell me how lonely and sad he was, sometimes to the point where I actually would go over to his place to make sure he was ok. My roommate had to tell him to leave our apartment because he became so aggressive and I was having a breakdown.
Oh there is so much more...the cheating, the lies, the times he would actually guilt me into sex only for him to blame it on me...the sexual advances that weren’t welcome, especially when I verbally would say “no” and physically try to stop him. The fact that I needed therapy, so I went, but when I asked him to see someone about his anger or how he could work on communicating with me (when I get anxiety)...he didn’t see why he needed to see someone, then refused to acknowledge he needed help too.
Have all of that happen to yourself and tell me you wouldn’t be suicidal after that dumpster fire. At least I had the heart to tell him that if he didn’t fully mean his last (major, but not final) attempt to get back together, that I would definitely be a mental and emotional mess.