Also my oldest brother keeps trying to out me to the rest of my family by throwing my lesbianism into random convos with absolutely NO prompting. It's not worst case scenario as I dont live with my parents and they're chill with The Queers, but it IS nevertheless an important thing for me. I want to do it myself, in my own pace. I have told him off before, and hes seen me crying because of it. Still, he doesnt stop. Now I'll never get to make that step myself God fucking dammit
jesus christ, maybe set a solid “you stop because this isnt your Big Reveal and if you don’t sort it out i won’t speak to you” in better words. he may be just trying to encourage you and get the conversation started, but if he’s just being an ass, kick him where it hurts