@sleepyschmoop @cawcawmotherfker both of you are right and i love it
That said
I almost messaged a guy that i matched with, then messaged, then heard nothing back, then made the mistake of accidentally meeting in person today
But it's like
Bad manners to message him yes? Right? Especially if I might see him again? Because he may uh may be in a position of authority in a club i want to be in to make friends?









