Hey you've been getting a lot of anons from people who sound aren't sure if they are trans or are just cis women who hate being women and I just thought it might help to let themknowthat they can come to me in rivate because I have had this internalquestioning and come to the conclusion that I was a cis woman who hates being a woman and am learning to hate it less. (1/2)
(2/2) Growing up I watched my mum go through a lot of health issues due to pregnancy complications, I was bullied for being bi & mildly gnc as a teenager and in my early 20s I dated an abusive man who belived he had the right to mistreat me because (according to him) women are too stupid to make decisions. All ofthese things made me hate being a woman but are not things that would be fixed by transition. (obvs some of these things ALSO happen to tans men but that's another topic.)
(3/2, sorry, I guess I'm too ~~womanly~~ to count to three or something) but anyway, there are lots of cis women who hate being women for these and other similar reasons and sometimes we get used to say that trans people aren't real, which is BS. Trns people are real and transition is life-saving and life-improving but it won't fix this type of issue. But it can get better especially when you are removed from sexist relationships and environments and my askbox is open if people want to talk.