Death.
Death, I believe, is the most bitter reality in the universe.The departure from the world.A world which we know is temporary; it's something we are aware of since young age,still we can't process when we are showed how short-term it is.When a loved one passes away.
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We belong to a sad generation. Every other person is hurt in some way or the other. The old,the young, and even children are coping with one thing or another. Most of us have gone through the pain of separation whether that be in love,friendship or any other form of connection. We have lost someone that we thought or wished would always be with us.
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What happens when you lose a connection?You complain.You cry.You curse.You pray.You do every single thing trying to satisfy yourself but...you fail. The fact that 'we' has become 'you' and 'I' hurts.The thought of losing 'us' stabs you repeatedly.
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But you forget that the agony of parting ways is not as much as it is of a separation through death.The reason to it is that we have hopes.We are somewhat comfortable with the fact that the other person exsists and we hope that maybe one day,maybe some day, the reunion can take place. This is not the case when one of the person dies. When one of the two in a connection dies,the other struggles to live.Their life becomes hard and the world seems so small,they find themselves suffocating.They wish death upon themselves because it's their only way of reuniting;their only way of healing.
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The pain of losing someone important is so severe that the will to live withers away and yet people are letting their ego win.
If only you think of death everytime you part ways,if only you assume the other person dying,maybe you would not leave?Maybe the thought of them not returning would stop you from falling apart?Just maybe the connection will not break?There are a lot of 'maybes' and 'ifs' that confuse us from making a move but keeping this cruel reality in mind can help us stay.
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Think about it.Think and decide if you'll be okay hearing about their death before you made peace with them.If not, which most probably is the case,go and make things right.There's no tomorrow,it's only the present.Make it beautiful.
Xoxo.
