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I already liked Pearl before Planarcadia but now.... she's one of my favourites
“Gloomy Witch” by Astari Nite off of 2020 album Here Lies
Signs The One You Love May Be A Sociopath
When you think of a "sociopath," chances are you think of a serial killer or a con man in a movie. But chances are you've met a sociopath - after all, according to Harvard psychologist Martha Stout, author of "The Sociopath Next Door," one in every 25 people is a sociopath.
Experts share some tell-tale signs that the one you love may actually be a sociopath.
THEY CHARM THE PANTS OFF OF EVERYONE IN THE ROOM. A standard trait of a sociopath is that they are charming and gregarious people. They know exactly what to say to everyone to get them to like them. That's probably why you were drawn to them in the first place.
THEY DISREGARD YOUR FEELINGS. Sociopaths lack empathy so if you get upset with them, they have a hard time understanding why. They won't act sorry or even see a reason for you to be upset. Psychotherapist Patti Sabla said, “They are incapable of empathy and may even try to blame you for 'trying to make them feel bad' about the situation.”
YOU DON'T THINK EVEN THEY BELIEVE WHAT THEY'RE SAYING. Do you ever get the feeling that the person you're talking to knows what they're saying isn't true? Sociopaths are skilled liars, but sometimes they're so disingenuous that their actions and facial expressions give them away.
THEY LIE CONSTANTLY. Sociopaths are compulsive liars because it's in their nature. They lie to make themselves look good. They're also really good at it. "Sociopaths can make up a blatant, outrageous lie without a blink of an eye with the drop of a hat," Sabla said. "Their lies usually are self-serving."
YOU CAN'T SEEM TO STAY MAD AT THEM. Even if you do catch them in one of their famous lies, you can't seem to be mad at them for long because a sociopath will charm you out if it.
THEY DON'T HAVE MANY (OR ANY) CLOSE RELATIONSHIPS. Sociopaths are the life of the party, so plenty of people will know them and want to be around them. But sociopaths tend not to have a lot of real friends because of how self-involved they are and how often they hurt people. If a person has a lot of burnt bridges and no real, close friends, they just may be a sociopath.
YOU FEEL LIKE YOU'RE THE ONLY PERSON IN THE ROOM. "They're with you seemingly non-stop," says Carlos Cavallo, a dating and relationship coach, "It's almost consuming, until you run out of steam on their latest manic binge, and you're left in the desert for a while."
YOU CAN'T COUNT ON THEM. Sociopaths are so self-involved that they will frequently forget things that have to do with other people. They will flake on people, forget things, and disappoint you. They won't take responsibility for it either.
THEY CAN'T HOLD DOWN (OR ADVANCE IN) A JOB. Sociopaths are sometimes terminally unemployed. They can't get along with coworkers because of their attitudes and will blame it on everyone but themselves. Coworkers do not trust them. "They are so antisocial they burn their bridges at work and blame everyone else but themselves for their inability to succeed," stated relationship coach and matchmaker Bonnie Winston.
YOU GET BLAMED EVEN FOR THEIR FAULTS. Saying 'I'm sorry' is not always easy, but sociopaths find it nearly impossible to admit they're wrong. They will always find a way to turn it around on you.
THEY DON'T SEEM TO KNOW WHAT MAKES YOU UPSET OR WHY. A good partner will know your triggers and do their best to avoid hitting them. Sociopaths seem to have a goldfish memory and can't seem to remember what ticked you off last. They just can't grasp that people have complex feelings. "This will come out of his or her psychological issues, but will resonate as an overall feeling of strangeness in the way they handle their affairs with other people," Cavallo said. "A strong feeling of disconnect will plague you."
THEY WANT TO SEEK REVENGE. Sociopaths are generally known as charming, but if you cross them, you'll know why they don't keep people around for too long. If they feel they've been betrayed or lied to, they will go to sometimes extreme lengths seeking revenge. "If they feel they have been embarrassed or humiliated, they will remember that," Sabla said. "Without anyone knowing it, they can be plotting revenge for days, weeks, or even months. They won't let it go until they feel they have 'gotten even.'"
