Oct 23, 2022
Maybe I’ll get around to a body shot and maybe I won’t
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Maybe I’ll get around to a body shot and maybe I won’t
The prettiest gin in town. (with fresh squeezed grapefruit juice)
Please don’t have a nice day. Have a day that matters. Have a day that’s true. Have a day that’s direct. Have a day that’s honest. A nice day? Uh uh. You’ll be miserable. Have a day that’s meaningful.
Harriet (Shirley McClain), The Last Word
Sometimes...
I don’t know what the fuck I’m still doing here. I have posted it all a thousand times over it seems.
And then you beautiful people send me messages so real and so moving that I am blown away and reminded of how grateful I am to be here expressing myself.
My purpose in this life (at least one of them anyway) is to fearlessly, lovingly, playfully and sometimes outrageously share and reveal my true self. So that others are inspired to do the same. To feel safe in doing so.
Because the whole point of life is to share and connect. We can’t help each other if we are always hiding.
Boundaries are crucial...
in the dating world and need to be respected. Most importantly by ourselves. We must set them and be ruthless sticking to them.
All of my firsts dates will now be limited to a quick drink and last no longer than one hour. My experience thus far is that men have a few drinks and then the touching starts. A brush of my hair, a quick touch on my leg. All leading up to the kissing they think is going to happen. Quick first dates eliminate this in most cases. And let's me know immediately if I want there to be a second one.
Personally I suck at telling people not to touch me in this type of situation. I hate rejecting people and hurting their feelings. I have GOT to get over this. Learning this lesson is an important part of my journey right now and it keeps presenting itself. I should never be afraid to speak up and protect my boundaries.
So I'll be experimenting with calm yet firm ways of saying:
KEEP YOUR FUCKING HANDS OFF ME.
Until I give the go ahead that is.
Charleston, SC. Somewhere South of Broad. This is about the time of year that the low country starts to call me back.
Your blog was one of the first ones I started to follow when I got into Tumblr a couple of years ago. As I will likely be purged, along with the thousands of others, I wanted to take a moment to thank you for keeping it a classy kind of debauchery lol I wish you well and if you decide to move to another platform, please let us know. And definitely, please post a review if you get that Pappy 15 for Christmas...
Thank you so much. I truly appreciate your message. I appreciate ALL the messages I’ve been receiving. Some of us have never spoken before and may never do so but we have a history here, together, that we will always remember. It was a platform that was unique to time, place, and topic. I will not forget it or you. I learned so much. xo
Opening my best bourbon today. Was saving it to open/share with “someone special”. Realized that person is me and is the perfect way to kick off my 2017.
Cheers!