#hothatbrishti

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hothatbrishti thank you, you are so sweet! <3

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Tell us about your freshman year college experience :)

My freshman year, I thought I knew what I wanted to do and how to get there. I thought I had college in the bag and that nothing was going to crush me.I came to college unprepared for life, because I was in an environment where I wasn’t constantly watched over. I had more freedom (even though I lived at home and commuted). There were parties and alcohol and I made friends. I made friends with boys. This was BIG for me because I could barely get a conversation going with any guy I went to middle/high school with.But my freshman year of college was also the year that my dad decided to invest in a convenient store and run the business. His minor health issues that existed only got worse as time went on because of long hours and everything. I helped the best I could. I was running from home, to class, to picking up orders from certain locations, bringing them to the store, and either going to my next class, going home, or staying and helping at the store.I was very, very bad with managing my time. In hindsight, I could have done a lot better. But I realized what I was studying at the time wasn’t even what would expand my interests and get me to where I eventually hope to be. I even attempted to give other courses a try, but it did more harm than good for trying new things.As for other experiences… lets see. Boys (friends and romantic interests). Parties (mostly brown frat parties). Ending up in the hospital twice in one semester (for different reasons). Meeting the guy who would later be my first actual boyfriend (after a whole lot of shit). Disappointing my parents a shit ton. Developing friendships that have either stayed afloat or were washed away.In the end, freshman year was honestly a shit show. 

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hothatbrishti replied to your post: “hothatbrishti replied to your post:i still can’t believe perrie was...”:

Yea I def agree! Calling her out as an individual is v necessary! I just don't think Zayn belongs in the discussion bc it gives ppl an unwarranted excuse 2 criticize his relationship which isn't up for debate. Her stupidity is a stand alone issue lol

lol i get what you mean - we don't/shouldn't need to judge couples/their relationships cuz it's their private life. but honestly it's sort of discomforting if he continued being with someone who might be at that level of ignorance, like... the least she could do is show that she understands where his roots lie (his mom is a great example of this), esp since she's a celebrity and has a lot of followers. and even besides this, i don't think it is out of context for fans to get irritated over their relationship if she views him like that, you know? perrie's lack of awareness doesn't suddenly stop when they are together, so we can't fully separate her individually vs w/ zayn.  & her stereotyping zayn, like what does that reinforce the public about white/poc interracial relationships? :/ if their relationship has that sort of element, then imo it's understandable why fans complain (although i know fans can go over the top). 

-afifa replied to your post “i still can’t believe perrie was like “lets have an indian element for...”

ugh yeah she's pretty ignorant about a lot of things (re: cultural appropriation especially) :/ but also i'm notttt too sure about that quote because the daily mail is incredibly unreliable most of the time lol so idk what to make of it

ohhh okay, i see! (although i saw this same thing on other sites too?) but i don't really know much about quotes/interviews in terms of like being an active fan of either (which i'm not lol) so i'll take your word for it

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hothatbrishti replied to your post:i still can’t believe perrie was like “lets have...

Idk it’s kind of sweet as a sentiment apart from Zayn being pakistani but honestly I’m sure he knows how she is and loves her anyway? Like it’s kind of unfair that ppl criticize celebrity couples so much, a lil disrespectful :3

oh i don't really mind zayn dating anyone, i honestly don't care about that. he can be happy with whomever; criticizing couples for silly things because of fan jealousy is useless. in general, i think couples are really sweet. but the fact that perrie is lumping him with every other brown person as indian lol. hmm, kinda makes me suspicious. but whatever, i just hope she's learned better by now. 

like god knows how i'd feel if i had a bf & he said smth as ignorant as that, bc all he could think if he saw me is that "nepali girl... indian girl... basically the same" kinda thing u know?? it's offensive imo. treating us like we're all the same is basically not seeing each of us at level w/ the same humanity as they see themselves :/ (but i'm sure you understand this as well of course!) 

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hothatbrishti replied to your post “churayl lol!! Well Scorpio guys I’ve seen are… good looking, but more...”

This is really true. Scorpios are intensely charming!! But sometimes it can be super negative. My ex is a Scorpio lmaoo. Actually two of my exes are scorpios and they're both hella attractive, hella charming, hella shady...

omg!! they sound like they match their sign really well XD

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hothatbrishti replied to your post:hothatbrishti replied to your post:i was actually...

Seriousllyyyy. Don’t waste this time in your life over silly boys. There are better ones out there. I mean God wouldn’t put us in a world full of guys ONLY like the ones we’ve met. There’s gotta be more to life lmao

this is so true :')