So, I think I’m abroplatonic with a tendency towards being frayplatonic.
Let me explain, so the abro part comes into play because often times when I first meet someone I have desire/want to be friends with them, like it’s something that I feel I need in my life but later on I pretty much lose interest and don’t even really miss them and like become confused why I even wanted to be their friend in the first place. And while all of that is happening it’s more common with friends as I become closer to them that platonic attraction just like grows legs and walks away, like it ceases to exist, and that’s the fray part of it. Even my best friend who I’ve been best friends with for 9 or 10 years now I very very rarely miss. It’s not that I don’t care for her at all or don’t like her. I just don’t have the platonic attraction you know? But then the abro part comes into play again cause sometimes, very rarely, my intense desire to be around her and hanging out with her strikes again ( this can be seen with a few friends) and then as fast as it comes it dissipates. So, yeah, I think I’ve might’ve figured out my relationship with platonic attraction.










