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- Chapter Eight -

 How to Get a Man

Every girl’s dream is to have the perfect companion.  The guy who will throw rocks at your window, asking if you can go out because he wants to spend so much time with you or the guy who will call you up at two o’clock in the morning just to say, “I love you.”  You always imagine about your fantasy date of strolling on the beach, with sand between your toes and interlocked fingers will a faceless dream guy.  In order to have the mind-blowing fairytale you have always wanted, you must first be able to acquire the perfect man.  Most people believe that a task like this can be tremendously difficult, but done properly it can be accomplished swiftly and effectively. In fact, just a few basic procedures will get you the perfect man.

The first step of this process is actually quite simple; get his attention.  Initiating a conversation is only half the battle. Starting up a conversation with a person is the key to slowly getting him on the track to asking you on a date.  On another note, it is extremely effective to make frequent eye contact with your man.  Let him catch you staring once in a while and smile at every chance you get.  Your goal is to be fairly subtle, yet still make it obvious that you want his attention.  He can't fancy you if he doesn't know you exist.  Once you have succeeded in being noticed, you are ready for the next step.

Step two: Humor.  There is nothing more attractive to a man than a woman who knows how to make him laugh.  Laughing is a casual form of communication.  When people don’t understand the language someone is speaking, they laugh.  When someone can’t hear what you are saying, they laugh, hoping it wasn’t a question.  Along with a humorous attitude, guys look for a girl who is noticeably poised, a girl who knows how to strut her stuff.  This means go out looking overly outspoken, obnoxious, and flamboyant; emphasis every move.  Don't put up a tough exterior to get over shyness.  This certain confidence requires a lot of self-esteem.

So here we have step three: Talking.  If you want someone to like you, you have to like yourself too.  When you meet someone for the first time, you may be tempted to be someone you're not and "put on your best face".  There's nothing wrong with wanting to make a good impression.  Just remember not to make such an impression that it will in turn repel men.  Instead show up bubblier than ever.  Talk a little too fast and mention everything that comes to mind to keep the conversation going.  Smile and blink a couple hundred times.  This definitely shows that you can brighten his day, any day.  To make an impression on your man, think conservative flirting.  Start with small talk, maybe add a wink or giggle here and there, and make it seem like you have an interesting life.  Cross your legs and twist your body at an angle so your man has a full image of your jaw-dropping curves even though you are sitting down. 

Step five: Body contact.  Learn to have a little fun with your man.  Every so often make some bodily contact because guys can often miss the little messages girls send through body language.  By doing this you will show him you like him enough to get that physical and playful, but also help to break the physical barrier and allow a man to feel more comfortable making a few advances to you. 

Step six: The look.  Obviously your personality has no effect on swooping up your man, so your appearance has a big influence on his thoughts for you.  Now many people say that looks aren’t everything: In reality, your looks are everything, especially on your first date.  I mean wouldn’t you just love to date a guy who wears sweat pants and a tank top showing of his manly chest hair to your first date?  When it comes to choosing your outfit, choose a flirty, yet modest, blouse and throw on a pair of pants.  Wearing a skirt on your first date is just too much.  You might as well show up in a full bridal gown.  Hair is also important in this preparation stage of your date.  Leaving your hair down is absolutely the best way to go.  When you walk he can see your luscious hair swaying in sync with your hips. 

Lastly: Make a move.  Most people think that waiting for the other person to make the first move is the best route to go, but men actually like girls who take initiative.  Don’t be afraid to make the first move.  Show that you have the confidence to go and do something, breaking down that barrier, and show you can handle your own life.  There is nothing worse than having a girlfriend who whines all the time, more like a little sister than a girlfriend.

By now you should have your man hooked.  By understanding more about what men are looking for, the more you can concentrate on proving that you are better than any of their standards.  You are not just some random girl in desperate need for love; you are a woman with dignity waiting for Mr. Congeniality to come blow your mind away.  You’ve done your homework and are now the most beautiful, all-round girl any guy would want to get their hands on.  Remember that you are a wonderful girl, and you deserve the best guy possible.  But if all else fails, you always have the twenty you’ve been carrying in your wallet.