âI never understood how someone could say those words so easily.â
âItâs the anonymity,â he says before taking a sip of his drink through the bright pink straw thatâs stuck in it. âSome people think that because someone chose to make their career in front of cameras, that automatically makes it okay for them, as in the viewers, the commenters, etc., to tell the person anything they want, good or bad. And when it happens to be something bad, they expect the person to be okay with it because, and I quote âThey chose to be in the public eye so they knew what to expect.â. Does that make any sense to you?â
He knows heâs getting a bit too fired up over this, but he canât help it. Heâs received his fair share of gratuitous mean comments and he thought, in the beginning, that he would be able to ignore them, that he wouldnât let those hurt him. But thatâs not what happened. Some DID get to him and it hurt. And he tried to ignore them and he thinks that nowadays he does a pretty good job of focusing on the positive ones rather than the bad ones, but sometimes heâs having a bit of a weak moment and the mean ones slip through his defenses, and they sting.
âAnd the fact that most of these comments are said online, itâs a form of protection. They think they can say whatever they want without consequences, although in the past few years weâve seen that there are ways to track people down and so no one is truly anonymous anymore, but still. Those peopleâŠthey donât think about how much impact their words can have on someone. They just donât. And if they do know, they donât care.â