You make a comment, in a nice manner, stating how you can't handle certain words and are impressed by those who can...and they block you and vaguepost about you (which you see because you share mutuals).
This confuses me. Do you know what you're writing? Do you realize how contentious porn is? How personal? And you're mad that someone doesn't write it like you do...but is impressed by you doing it?
This is why I love horror authors, they cannot be perturbed. This goes double for those writing erotica. You can spit in their face and tell them they're the worst person to ever put words on a page and they will agree with you and try to sell you some of those words.
We're here to be weird and horny, there's no room for ego. So swallow before you choke and get back to being weird and horny.