#i will try that

[tomhoppusdelonge]

Try the tag micro for the particular size kink!

Ah!!! Thankyou!

[psalacanthea]

I made blueberry cardamom and rosewater cookies yesterday. yes, cookies. would it make better muffins? yes. that's okay though. next time I'll try mini muffins instead.

[starsonmarsy]

Same system as last time here. It takes time. Our host was stuck in front for about a decade, and about 6 months after he realised he was a system.

We found that when one of us fronts naturally, finding music or a hobby or activity we like doing can act as a trigger to allow us to front, but our host used to still stick around front while one of us had control.

Our host had to practice leaving front, a few minutes at a time and then longer and longer as time went by, and now we can each front on our own.

A lot of the time, though, it is still a "bad thing happens and out host leaves front and leaves one of us non-hosts in front" kinda situation.

i just feel bad, because i can feel the itches of others wanting to come out, like a puppy sadly clawing at the door.

and i see other systems, even new ones, that flow freely and i then feel guilty for not being able to provide that for the others.

most of our switches are also just me getting booted from the seat because of a stressor.

i always lurk and watch, even with someone else having the reigns, and it's why i keep slipping in even without trying. i don't know what it is that makes me not fully go. i even cling to the controls even when i'm clearly burnt out or stressed and need someone else to take over.

i probably have to start from leaving for seconds before building up to letting everyone hold their own.

i'm over here not letting the others do the entire point of a system, it's ironic

[venexsus]

FORGOT THE SPOTIFY APK I WAS USING AND NOW I CANT INSTALL IT ON MY NEW PHONE DJDBDJDNDJDN

[lubricipeda]

*a single tear runs down my cheek* dude your theme is so, nice, what the h e c k, eleanor is in envy of your aesthetic

JSJSJSJSJD I spent a week coding it ((,,,,;;;; bless Eleanor

[equalseleventhirds]

:( my tummy is upset but i have only two more days of work and then i can rest so i can’t get sick there is so much to do at work i can’t get sick at all pls make the upset tummy go away

[downrighthorizontal]

hey when im numb i have this box of cool river pebbles and they feel cool and soft pressure and nice on skin and its probably some hippie shit but it helps

thank u