Post inspired by "Single, not alone"~Pastor Mike @wearetransformation . Do you have those amazing moments when you hear something that changes how you view everything for the better? Well this sermon was something else✨✨ and has really provided me with real insight on how to tackle this inner growth I've been trying to achieve through my relationship with God since Easter. I want to fill the void in me with God as He is love and with love, I can eventually learn to be complete in myself, and then love others. At first, I thought that breaking away from everyone I love was the answer and I was planning to do this very slowly but last week, I just felt like the void was getting bigger and I was getting worse. I didn't feel happy with trying to cut ties. It felt wrong and that's because it was wrong. In isolation, the Devil works best. Feeding us horrid lies and filling our void with hate making us insecure and unhappy. The problem is I had confused being single with alone and that lead to loneliness. But now I know that to be complete by yourself; to be an individual doesn't mean disconnect. I just need to focus on God and myself. Become more self-aware to know my weaknesses and strengths and ask God for The Holy Spirit to help me grow. Sometimes, I look at couples and go,"how am I single?" But being single is our choice. Sometimes, we make the right decision and sometimes the wrong one but I'm done squandering this God-given season by following meaningless feelings and relationships with no future. Everything I'll do is in hopes to fulfill God's will and bring people to salvation but I can only do this if I grow with him first. So I won't waste this season of singleness, like revision for exams I have plenty of growing to do. #Godisgreat #Christianblog #black #naturalhair #patience #Godsgrace #Christian #stayfaithful #blackgirl #aspirations #powerinthetongue #armourofGod #thanksbetogod #truth #Faith #melanin #dacba #afro #blog #darkskin #Congolese #motivated #iamcongo #single #singleness #lovealwayswins #futuredoctor #resilence