My Coming out story.
Hello, I am bisexual and I came out on the 16/10/2015, I am here to tell my story. I first new I was bisexual when I was 12, I went through the denial stage thinking that I was just going through a ‘phase’, I went to high school bottling the feelings that I have for boys and girls up, I met a so called friend (this was a few years before she ditched me) I got to know her for a few months and told her I am bisexual.
A few months after I ask her out and was rejected, It was around October and I was about 13/14 years old and near Halloween, I invited her around my house to ‘sleep over’ we agreed to top and tail, we was watching a movie when our hands met and we stayed on the bed looking in each others eyes but that moment lasted a few mins. I knew i felt that crush getting bigger.
It was a few years later on when I was 16 I developed a crush for another best friend i known since primary, I ignored that crush and started to accept I was bisexual, A few months later on being 16 I asked a girl called Laura out, she was a lovely girl, this relationship lasted four months and was long distanced.
I then a few months later when I turned 17 it was around December time in 2014, it was near Christmas, When the hate was going on I was trying to help people, I met these people on tiny chat whom slowly became my friends and was helping others too, I got to know this girl called Natalie, I fell in love and on 2014, new years day I asked her out at 1 o clock in the morning, The thing was this relationship lasted 5 months or so, I felt like it was the best thing I ever had but I had destroyed it because of my degrading self hatred, I miss her, I love her but can never seem to build a friendship with her again.
This year 2015 on 10th of October about 6 ish I told my parents I was bisexual for the first time with guts, they always had their suspions but 6 years in the closet and wording it and confusion with not knowing how they would take it was the hardest 6 years of my life, But I am proud to be bisexual.
So Please what I learnt from this all is it doesn’t matter how you feel you cannot change yourself because thats the way you are, You shouldn’t change for no one. I learnt this the hard way, I hope this encourages you if you are any sexuality if you haven’t or have came out to come out if you havent and if not to share your support.
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-Xsepheri0slocked