I am at a crossroads in my love life and someone that I really saw a future with has become distant and has not responded to any messages. We are long distance at the moment (I used to live there, now I don't, but plan on moving back). We used to talk every day and now I have not heard from him in weeks. Aside from general worry, what am I supposed to do? -Alicia
I understand what it’s like to stand under such precarious situations. At times, we feel pressured to make decisions when waiting hasn’t paid off. The cards before me today highlight your worries and especially what might be best for you, under these circumstances. The cards tell a story of “what if”s and their result. The Ten of Wands reveals you are under quite a burden that you are, frankly, upholding and supporting all by yourself. While I see you are an emotionally strong and steadfast woman, it seems that you’re the only one in this relationship taking this matter seriously. You’ve come a long way to see something through, and there doesn’t appear an end to this waiting.
The Six of Swords suggests that a different journey is necessary. Calm and clear waters beckon you out from the dark and murky depths of your current confusions. The only way out of this dubious state of “will he come around” is being out of the whole situation altogether. But the greatest thing, is that you won’t be alone. Your next journey will be done with mentorship, guidance, or some sort of help from someone who truly cares and understands what you are going through. If you decide to leave all this waiting behind, you will not have to do it alone. The Page of Wands represents creativity and travel, and the woman in this card’s image actually looks in the precise direction of the Six of Swords in its placement in the spread. The Page of Wands suggests that taking a trip or finding a creative hobby will help you channel a smooth and peaceful path out of a difficult situation. You might even learn more about yourself this way as well. The Page of Swords reveals your curious nature and tendency to wander across your thoughts and options. Taming those wonderings through a creative outlet will help your visions become clearer.
The Five of Swords tells me that you are a very determined woman who, when she knows what she wants, will do all that she can to achieve her goals and dreams. However, your current situation at hand is a very tenuous and uncertain victory. It isn’t a problem with your methods, but what you fight for may not be worth all that you have to go through to get it. In the end, it’s not your choice of bow or arrow that makes this feel difficult - it is the target that must be changed. The Eight of cups suggests a search into your heart. You want your hopes to become reality, but do your goals align with your values, core principles, your rules for yourself and how you want to live life? Are you sacrificing your beliefs to make this happen? If so, in any of these areas, it may be time to let go. You should not have to compromise integrity to who you are to find happiness. The Nine of coins shows that the Universe will always find a way to place what you want and what you need in your way, so you do not have to sacrifice a piece of yourself to be happy. There is abundance waiting for you elsewhere, and perhaps taking a moment to explore the world or your own hidden talents will reveal that truth to you more obviously.
The final card, The Star, is your guide. You are on your way to blossoming into the best person you could ever imagine yourself to be, soon equipped with new skills, talents, and knowledge than you have now. Listen to the universe which speaks through your dreams, and open your heart to the greater possibilities that lie just past the horizon. Let go of your desperate pursuits, and let your soul embrace what it truly wants in this life. <3
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