Real love never leaves your heart... BUT understanding and acceptance is what builds up true trust... a foundation, that can easily be shattered if you don´t watch the cement (love) mix up and dry first... if you build a house on these walls, it will most likely create later problems as you raise the level, because it seriously influences stability and probably will crush anyone trying to fix the lower levels later on. IF god forbid... it happens and everything around you gets crushed by the weight of outer problems, and the wall that should hold yourself up is nothin more than a plasterwall giving in, under that said weight... how can you expect to thrive and be strong, if you got absolutly nothing to hold on to... but yourself... Nothing... but one side of a room. And that sadly is nothin more than empty space... and no matter how strong you are... IF you truely love and have invested all of your money (heart). you won´t be able to catch shit... cause no matter how strong your feet are, weak ground gives in.
don´t demand trust. Never treat your love as a consolation prize and don´t give in... be true and NEVER punish honesty... because resentment makes an honest person lie, noone can love a liar and in the end that person will hate him/herself for not beeing strong enaugh to just build a house somewhere else or loosing hope at all making him/herself at fault for not beeing able to believe in the truth of his/her commitment.
either build together or shut the fuck up... who wants to watch an ugly house everyday... so no wonder if some part gets a flat later on... it is NOT a good nights rest if you sleep on uneven floors all the time. (yes here i refrence to cheating) because life has it´s problems and love should be able to strengthen us not make us miserable and look for acceptance and our whishes somewhere else...