there was this time [i think it was two years ago], where i once asked this guy (who liked me too) to be my valentine.. but then kinda didnt want to make it public... and chickened out. so, we really kinda went nowhere. and he lived in another town. about an hour away. he was (and still is) a trans man (meaning ftm) though. i just wasnt sure how i would tell certain people.. and. he wanted to make it "facebook official" public, i mean. but tbh, we met off of tumblr. however, he doesnt live too far. and we actually have a mutual friend. (one of mine from ms). but we hadnt met up in person yet... and. i dont know how (or if you can) make it so only CERTAIN people can see that youre in a relationship... .-. and my mom's my friend on fb (totally not by choice lol). and i think she already knows that when i say i know *elijah, *chels & *nessa through school, i think she knows im lying lol... but nonetheless, -she's let me hang out with elijah, just us, in sf. -let me go to a concert with chels -and is letting me (kinda) go to a concert with nessa