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[femmelotje]

Once you get this you have to say five things you like about yourself, publicly, Then send it to ten of your favorite followers (positivity is cool) ily i hope you're having a wonderful day ;D

Oh my, I don’t know whether I never saw this or I did see it and went: Damn that’s too hard and forgot about it, but I just saw it and I guess I should start thinking about this, no? *-) 

1. I like how I am always willing to be there for someone else, whether it’s by listening to them complain about the crappy day they had or by cooking them a meal or just plainly chilling on the couch and just co-existing 

2. Adding to that, I also like how over the years, I have taught myself the value of only being that person for people who deserve it and not just *everyone* that’s willing to dump their shit on me without ever returning the favour. 

3. I like my ability to just power through, even when shit gets hard. Giving up is not in my vocabulary 

4. I like how, even though I have trouble standing up for myself, I let nobody and nothing get in the way of my dream to become a (single) mom. 

5. I like how I have the goddamn balls to BE a single mom. And I like how I am absolutely confident that even though it will be tough, I will fucking ace this thing (pun totally intended). I love you too <3 

[rhymewithoutapoet]

11, 20, 53, 87, 88. Fem asked all the other things.

11: You can only drink ONE liquid for the rest of your life - what is it? I was hoping you guys wouldn’t ask me this one. Ehm. I think lemonade, because it actually helps for thirst, unlike many of the drinks I like better.20: What was your last thought before you went to bed last night?I don’t remember. Probably something along the lines of ‘aw shit. How did it get this late again? I have to be up in six hours.’53: What was the last thing you ate?A chocolate egg. Dark chocolate.87: What is your astrological sign?Virgo. Let me tell you: being a virgo is pretty great at times. The Dutch word of ‘Virgo’ isn’t just similar/has the same root as the word for ‘virgin’; it’s actually the same word. I’ve had so many conversations (but not that many that it isn’t funny anymore, because I never discuss astrology) where people joked about astrological signs and being a virgin and sometimes even referring to me being a virgin/lesbian/whatever and me smiling innocently because I thought they knew my sign. Until they asked me what my sign was, I told them it’s Virgo and they lost their shit.

88: What were you doing last night at 12 AM?Playing Skyrim

[itmejoyce]

Do all the band things

1) If you were a tv producer and you had to choose 5 band members to live together for a reality show, who would you choose?Hmmmm. I think that would beeeee... Matty Mullins (Memphis May Fire), Syn & Zacky (Avenged Sevenfold), Ahren Stringer (The Amity Affliction), Hayley Williams (Paramore) and Tay Jardine (We Are The In Crowd). Would be interesting haha.2) If you had to get lyrics tattooed on your body, which lyrics would they be?I think lyrics from a The Amity Affliction song, because the lyrics of a lot of those songs are things that appeal to me.3) Older music or newer music?I don't really care. As long as I like it, I don't care whether it's from 1990 or 2015. 4) What would you do if you worked at a restaurant and your favorite band showed up?I think I'd just stare and ask my boss if I can talk to them and make them the best pizza's ever.5) Have you ever written a letter or given a gift to a band member?Nope.6) What 3 songs make you ridiculously happy?Pffff.. Not really songs by bands, but I think Teenage Dream & California Gurls from Katy Perry and Treasure by Bruno Mars? Idk it really depends on my mood and I like a lot of songs.7) If you were in a band, what instrument would you play?Well I already play guitar, but I think playing drums would be awesome too.8) Favorite band member of all time?Synyster Gates (Avenged Sevenfold), because I think Avenged Sevenfold got me into metal and playing metal on guitar and Syn is just an inspirational guitarist.9) Have you ever gotten a tweet from your favorite band?Not from my favorite band, but I've gotten a tweet from a bandmember from an other band.10) How do you feel about mosh pits?When I see them on TV or youtube at a live concert I'm like "yeaaah u go guys", but I'd rather not be in the middle of one (because I'm 1.60 m "tall" and I'd just get dragged along and I'm too careful for that haha). However, I've seen moshpits where they just randomly kick and punch instead of "mosh", and that's just ridiculous.11) Have you met your favorite band yet?I have met Parkway Drive at the Graspop festival in 2011 and they are just sooooo nice. It was awesome to meet them. I've taken pics with some other bands too (like Atreyu, Epica, Sonic Syndicate and Dead by April). I would love to meet The Amity Affliction or Avenged Sevenfold.12) Name three bands you can't stand other than Blood On the Dancefloor or BrokencydeHahahha wow. Hmm.. I don't really know, actually. I don't like Muse (except for their Supermassive Black Hole song) and 30 Seconds To Mars. I can't think of any other bands right now.13) Did you go through an embarrassing scene or emo phase?.... maybe.14) How do you feel about bands that never change their sound?Hmm I don't know. Some bands are good the way they are. But like Paramore kind of changed their sound and it turned out really great, but when Sonic Syndicate changed their sound, I started disliking it. 15) How do you feel about bands who have gone in a completely different direction with their sound?I mean it's their choice. They should make whatever music they want, so from that point, it's really understandable. Sometimes, you can grow into liking the different style and sometimes, it's just too different to like. To each his own, right?16) Have you ever had a bad concert experience?Hmm not really? I haven't been to any concerts where I thought like "wtf is this".17) Mark Hoppus or Pete Wentz?Mark Hoppus. Blink 182 was one of the first rock-ish bands I got into and I still like 'em.18) How many songs do you have on your ipod/phone/whatever right now?I'm too lazy to walk upstairs and grab my iPod, but I think there's about >200 songs on it?19) What was the first song from your favorite band that you've ever heard?I think that was either Almost Easy or Afterlife from Avenged Sevenfold. I remember kind of disliking Almost Easy and really liking Afterlife, but now Almost Easy is one of my faves.And for The Amity Affliction, it was Youngbloods. My best friend's brother listened to them and I really liked their sound, so I started listening to them.20) Have you ever been stereotyped because of the type of music you listen to?Oh yes, but now I listen to whatever I like, whether it's some good old disco music, metal, hardcore, pop music, rap music, whatever I feel like listening to.21) Have you ever lost respect for a band member/band for something they said or did?Hmm. When I heard about Ian Watkins and what he did, it made me lose all my respect for him. 22) Would you rather be a roadie or a band member?Band member, because I think it would be so awesome to play in front of a large crowd and have them all singing the lyrics to the songs you've written and just go nuts and argh.23) Have you ever listened to a few seconds of a song and just thought "fuck no." and turned it off?I probably have, but I don't know which song(s) hahaha.24) Are you good at songwriting?I've written some lyrics, yes, but I never really came up with some good music for it. I'm more like "oh that song sounds fun to play" and then I try to learn that song and get frustrated when I don't get it and quit after 10 minutes.25) Guitar or Bass?I play guitar, but I'd love to play bass, just for the bassline of Disco Inferno by the Tramps and some other groovy basslines.Thanks for your ask, Sjon! xxx

[itmejoyce]

all the valentine asks

Godnondeju hahaha. Vooruit dan maar.1:Do you have a crush at the moment?Yesss on my girlfriend. 2:Have you ever been deeply in love?Yes.3:Longest relationship you've ever been in?3 years. With my first girlfriend.4:Have you ever changed for someone?Yessss I completely lost myself for a girl haha.5:How is your relationship with your ex?One ex is still a very good friend (my best friend), my second ex and I are okay too and I don't talk to my last ex anymore.6:Have you ever been cheated on?Nooo and hopefully it stays that way.7:Have you ever cheated?Nope.8:Would you date someone who's well known for cheating?Nope. I already have trust issues so I wouldn't date someone who's cheated a lot.9:What's the most important part of a relationship?Communication, effort and trust.10:Do you like to be in serious relationships or just flings?I prefer being in serious relationships. I get attached very quickly haha.11:When you are dating someone do you believe in going on "breaks"?Nope. I'd drive myself insane with constantly wondering what they're doing and who they are with and whether they're thinking about me and that kind of overthinking stuff. I'm kind of an all or nothing kind of person.12:How many people have you ever hooked up with?Owwwwwwww I don't know... I think more than 30 people? (not proud of it, though).13:What's one thing you regret saying/doing in a previous relationship?I regret a lot of things, but the thing I regret the most is letting it destroy me and not walking away earlier.14:What age do you think is appropriate for kids to start having sex?16?15:Do you believe in the phrase "age is just a number"?Noooooooo dear lord. I mean, I would never date someone who's younger than my brother (19 yrs old), because else, it would feel like it could be his girlfriend (idk if this makes sense?) 16:Do you believe in "love at first sight"?Nah I could believe in a crush at first sight, but I don't think I could fall (deeply) in love with someone I have only seen.17:Do you believe it's possible to fall in love on the internet?Oh yes.18:What do you consider a deal breaker?Being rude, being condescending, not putting effort in "us", being too judgemental, disliking or hating animals, being too busy, being a couch potato, being too chaotic and so on.19:How do you know it's time to end a relationship?Hmm I think when you don't get equally as much back as you put into it.20:Are you currently in a relationship?Yeh21:Do you think people who have dated can stay friends?Yeah. I'm still friends with my first ex.22:Do you think people should date their friends?Yeah, I mean.. why not? The friendship has already been built, so that connection is already kind of made.23:How many relationships have you had?3 excl the one that I'm in rn.24:Do you think love can last forever?Hmm I think that everyone has that one person (ex or current love) who they had this special connection with and had this special feelings for that will always stay deeply rooted in their heart (this sounds corny i'm sorry).25:Do you believe love can conquer all things?Hmm I don't know. Self love can?26:Would you break up with someone your parents didn't approve of?Yeah. Although I didn't last time lol.27:If you could go back in time and give yourself one piece of advice about dating what would it be?Don't settle for anything less. If you're not getting what you want or need, leave.28:Do you think long distance relationships can work?Yeah, but only when the communication between the visits is really good and both persons are putting effort into communicating.29:What do you notice first about another person?Probably eyes and the whole face in general.30:Are you straight, bi, gay or pansexual?Idk to be completely honest. 31:Would it bother you if your partner suffered from any mental illness?Noooo absolutely not. As long as they don't keep leaning on me and expecting me to fix them. But I will surely support them throughout and if there's anything I could do to make it better, I would.32:Have you ever been in an abusive relationship?Hmm.33:Do you want to get married one day?Yes and no. I don't know really. Depends on whether I think that person could live with me forever hahaha.34:What do you think about getting your partner's name tattooed?Noooooooope that's a don't.35:Could you be in a relationship without sex?Other people could, maybe, but I don't think I can. 36:Are you still a virgin?Depends on what kind of meaning you're giving to "virgin".Have I had sex? Yes.Have I had sex with a guy? No.37:What's more important: Looks or personality?I think it needs to be balanced. I think for me it would be important to have someone nice to look at as well as someone who I can really talk to and stay interested in.38:Do you enjoy love films?Yeahno. I'm a bit bitter when it comes to seeing people in love. Is it jealousy? I don't know. 39:Have you ever given anyone/received roses?I've given roses, yes. I wouldn't want to receive roses, because yeah it's a nice gift, but wtf do I gotta do with flowers? You'd make me happier if you'd buy me food.40:Have you ever had a valentine?Yess.41:What's your imagination of a "perfect date"?Ooooooooooh hmmm.. For like a day date it would be just doing something. Going to the park and have a picnic, play minigolf, eat food.. a walk on the beach maybe.. For a night date, watching the sunset would be so cool and just sit on the beach in a blanket talking and enjoying each other. Idk. I like cliché things.42:Have you ever read "Romeo & Juliet"?Nope.43:What's more important: Your partner or your friends?Needs to be balanced. You shouldn't neglect your friends to be with your partner, but you shouldn't neglect your partner to spend time with your friends either. It shouldn't be like an 75%-25% situation. Especially in a long distance relationship where you're already seeing each other only once in a few weeks. I think that time, you have to fully pay attention to your lover and be together.44:Would you consider yourself "romantic"?Yeah, I think I can be quite romantic.45:Could you imagine to date one of your current friends?Hahahahahha yes. I just keep having some sort of small crushes on some friends, actually.46:Have you ever been "friendzoned"?No and the whole "friendzoned" thing is just bullshit too.47:Which "famous couple" is your favorite?Brad and Angelina. Orlando Bloom and Miranda Kerr were also my favorite, but they split up. :(48:What's your favorite love song?I think that would be Thinking Out Loud by Ed Sheeran.49:Have you ever broken someone's heart?Yeh.50:If you're single, why do you think you are?I'm not single, but if I would be, oh there would be so many reasons why I would be.51:Would you rather date someone who's rich but a douchebag or someone who's poor but a nice guy?Jeez I don't know. Like what's poor and what's rich? Like someone who has thousands/millions of dollars vs someone who's got almost nothing? I wouldn't date a douchebag, regardless of how much money he/she has, that's for sure.52:Are you good at giving other people advices regarding dating/ relationships?I think so?53:Are you jealous of couples when you're single?I'm always jealous of couples, whether I'm single or not54:How important is it to make a relationship official (p.e. on facebook)?Kind of is, kind of isn't. I wouldn't put everything of my relationship on social media. Being in a relationship is personal and I don't feel the need to be "liked" as a couple.55:Would you consider yourself "clingy", "overly attached" or "jealous"?Yes, yes and yes. I'm an insecure piece of shit.56:Have you ever "destroyed" a relationship?No? I hope not?57:Do you think it's silly to consider suicide because of a broken heart?I can't really judge about that, because I've been there before, but suicide is not a solution and things will get better. I hope someone reads this who's in this position, but it will get better. I was convinced I wouldn't see my 21st birthday and I just completly lost the will to live, but things DO get better.58:Are you the "dominant" or the "submissive" part in a relationship?Submissive.59:Have you ever forgotten important dates like your partner's birthday or your anniversary?I actually did forget my current girlfriend's birthday hahaha. But now I know it.60:What's your opinion on open relationships?If you're strong enough and trusting enough to do it, go for it. Do whatever you like.61:Who's more important: Your partner or your family?LMFAOOOO family of course.62:How do you define "cheating"?Kissing and further, but I think it also starts with flirty texts and really like.. provoking the other.63:Is watching porn while being in a relationship inappropriate?Uh no? I wouldn't mind.64:Do you think Valentine's Day is overrated?It's kind of a "I don't care about this shit, but I kind of do" kind of day.65:Would you consider yourself a "cuddler"?Only with the person I'm in a relationship with or someone I reaaaaally like and who I'm comfortable with, because I don't really like being touched.If I'd only took the time to do my homework the same way as I did answering this ask hahaha. Thanks for your questions, Sjon! <3

[itmejoyce]

The questions that end with a 1, 3 and 4.

Godnondeju hahaha oke I'll try.1) Think of the last person who said I love you, do you think they meant it?I hope my girlfriend meant it, haha.3) When’s the last time you were aggravated and happy at the same time?I think I'm almost always kind of aggravated and kind of happy at the same time.4) Would you ever smile at a stranger?Yeah of course.11) Are you a social or an antisocial person?I don't know actually. I'm very social with the people I know hahaha. I'm bad at making contact with people I barely or don't know.13) Have you ever kissed someone whose name begins with an "R"?Yeh14) Can you drive a stick shift?I can't drive at all. I drove a tractor a few times, but that's not worth mentioning.21) Name something you dislike about the day you’re having.I'm stressing the fuck out because of school and I'm tired and everything just feels meh.23) Are you dating the last person you talked to?Noo the last person(s) I talked to are my classmates.24) What are you sitting on right now?My ass. On the ground.31) Do you have any empty alcohol bottles hidden somewhere in your room?Nah I don't really drink. Only at a party or when I'm going out.33) Do you want your tongue pierced?YESSSS I want my tongue pierced so badlyyyyy, but I've got no money. :(34) If you had to delete one year of your life completely, which would it be?2013 because that year was overall just fucking shit.41) Think back 2 months ago; were you in a relationship?Yesss.43) Has anyone told you they don’t want to ever lose you?Yeahh and most of 'em left haha44) What's the best part about school?The parts where I have no school.51) Do you hate the last guy you had a conversation with?I can't really remember the last time I talked to a guy to be honest.53) Have you ever liked someone you didn’t expect to?Yesss. I usually end up liking someone I never expected to like. 54) Do you think you can last in a relationship for 6 months and not cheat?Lmao yeah I would never cheat. I'm not that kind of an asshole.61) How’s your heart?Beating. 63) Have you ever cried over a guy?In like the boyfriend kind of way? Because I never had a boyfriend.64) Who is probably talking a load of crap about you right now?Hahaha wow I don't know. I would like to know, though. Or not. Idk.71) Do you have someone you can be your complete self around?Yeah, my best friend. She has seen me at my best and at my very worst and she still wants to be friends.73) Do you have someone of the opposite sex you can tell everything to?Nope.74) Have you ever felt replaced?Ohhhh yes, but I've gotten used to come in second or third or I don't know where.81) Last person you cried in front of?Some friends last saturday83) Do you think the person you have feelings for is protective of you?I don't know actually. I'll ask haha.84) If the person you wish to be with were with you, what would you be doing right now?Probably cuddling or talking. Not thinking about school and reality.91) Will you be in a relationship in 2 months?I don't know. If my girlfriend can last that long with me haha.93) Have you ever kissed a Matthew?Wtf haha no94) Were you in a relationship in January? How was it going?No, in January I was still recovering from the destructive break up I was going through.101) Have you ever kissed under fireworks?YesssGodnondeju that was such work haha. But thanks for your aaask and I hope I did this riiight <3

[omgitsnotachar]

ALL THE HARRY POTTER QUESTIONS

1. What house will you be in? Hufflepuff!

2. If the sorting hat was on you and it said you'd be great in a house you didn't consider before, will you follow his advice or choose what house you want? I would probably just choose the house that I want. After all, it is my academic career... (or does that sound too ravenclaw-y?)

3. What kind of animal would you bring to school? Well, I'm afraid of flying birds, so no owls for me. And I don't like toads. I do really like rats but cats are... well.. cats.. So. A cat probably.

4. If you were in class, where would you normally sit? I always liked sitting way at the front at one of the sides, so I could lean against the wall and the teacher wouldn't notice you that much.

5. What do you think you'll be doing right now? Well, trying to decide wether I should eat now or try to finish all my homework before I eat because I've been hanging around all weekend in stead of doing something usefull (just like I did this weekend, yay!)

6. What's the core of your wand? Dunnow, I'll find a quiz... Aha, okay. Unicorn tail hair, because I'm pure of heart. 

7. Do you think you'll be part of the quidditch team? Hahahaha, only to make people laugh by falling of my broom...

8. Will you be part of any organization??? Definitely, don't kow which one though..

9. Will you go home during holidays? I think I would go definitely during Christmas and all that but maybe I would stay one Christmas at Hogwarts, just to know what it's like.

10. Do you think you'll have friends from other houses? Ohhh yes, I'm sure about that.

11. What will you pack for school? Besides school stuff? Probably something to listen to music, maybe even my guitar... Books will be there so I won't even bother, but I would bring a lot of pictures of my friends from home and family and stuff.

12. How about when going home for holidays, what will you bring home? Treaaaats! And maybe some books for my parents but... treats. Oh and a magical chess set!

13. Would you consider studying in another wizarding school? Yeah!

14. Do you think you'll be a prefect or head girl/boy? Probably...  like to be in charge so, yeah, it would fit me.

15. Are you going to be a pure-blood or half-blood or muggle-born? I think I would be a half-blood... I always knew my mom was hiding something... lol

16. Will you be related to any wizarding family? Nahhh, then you have to live up to things. Better not.

17. Will you be a student who gets into trouble a lot? For laughing? Yeah... For really breaking rules? Only if I needed to help one of my friends.

18. Do you think you'll get a lot of detention? For what reason/s? Maybe, if they're being strict with deadlines....

19. On hogsmeade visits, what shops will you go to? EVERY SHOP. SHOPS <3

20. Will you be supportive of your house's quidditch team? Yeah! As long as it's not raining while they're playing.

21. Will you read Hogwarts:A History? I'm guessing I would either read parts of it as I go or I'll read the whole thing in one go, not stopping for food or sleep or anything.

22. Do you think you'll get a lot of letters from home? How frequent do you think you'll get them? I think I will, and probably once or twice a week.

23. Will you subscribe to the daily prophet or the quibbler or other wizarding world media? I would subscrice to the daily prophet I guess, but maybe the quibbler as well.

24. Which part of the castle will be your favorite? I'm guessing the library <3

25. When sleeping in your dormitory, will your four-poster bed's curtains be drawn or closed? Closed, because I don't like sleeping when it's light... I wake up to early...

26. If the team your house played against wins, do you think you'll be bitter towards the other team after the game? No, probably not. Unless they won because they were cheating, then I would be.

27. Do you think you'll be a fan of wizard music? Depends on the music!

28. Will you be curious enough to try and explore the whole castle, even if you know you can get in trouble for visiting some parts of it? I'll probably skip bits of it... You know, the bits that get you in trouble if you get caught there. 

29. How frequent will your visits to the library be? Definitely once a week, maybe even more!

30. If someone was to form an organization similar to dumbledore's army, will you join? Yep!

31. If you were to get detention, what task would you prefer? Would you want to scrub cauldrons or clean trophies or sort through unlabeled books or…? Sort through unlabeled books, maybe I'll find something interesting in one of them!

32. On your o.w.l.s, what subject/s will you get an O in? Which ones do you think you’ll get a T on? Uhm, yeah I really don't know...

33. How about in your n.e.w.t.s?Uhm, yeah I really don't know either...

34. If you were a pure-blood, would you take interest in reading muggle literature? I guess I would... books <3

35. At what time do you think you'll go to bed on weekdays? Probably around eleven-ish, with some exceptions... 

36. Would you prefer firewhiskey over butterbeer? No, I think I would prefer the butterbeer

37. What wizard snack would be your favorite? Or which one would you like to try? I would reaaaally like the chocolat frogs <3

38. Will you collect chocolate frog cards? No, probably not, because I always lose everything..

39. Will you keep track of which flavor of beans you already tried? No probably not because I would be too lazy..

40. What quidditch team (excluding hogwarts houses) will you support? Oh gosh, I don't know. I don't think I would support one to be honest...

41. What classes will you take for n.e.w.t.s? Definitely transfiguration and potions, otherwise I'm not really sure, although I always liked astrology.

42. What will your boggart be? Probably my whole family dead or something... 

43. Will you stay in the hog’s head or the three broomsticks? Three broomsticks.

44. If you are of age, will you try to enter the triwizard tournament if they ever host one again? Nope, nope, nope, definitely not.

45. What do you think happens during graduation? I don't know, everyone gets a present? :D

46. Will you see the thestrals carrying the carriages? Nope, & I hope to keep it that way...

47. If you were invited to join the slug club, will you accept the invitation? ... Depends on who's in it as well...

48. Will you consider becoming a professor in hogwarts after school? Definitely.

49. What would your patronus be? Uhm, I'm hoping a Wallaby or something cute.. A horse would be really awesome as well!

50. What memory will you think of when making a patronus? All the fun times I've had with my friends and family.

51. What year are you suppose to be in right now? I'm 21, which means I would be done... (or teaching again! :) ) 

Thanks for the questions Dion!

[itmejoyce]

Picking random numbers: 1, 6, 7 , 14, 18, 20, 25 , 34, 37, 43

1: What is your name and does it mean anything?My name is Joyce and I looked it up once and it meant something like happiness and happy things (because of "joy"), but idk haha.6: Do you wish to travel a lot?Hmm sometimes. I'd rather be home and have fun at home.7: Did you participate in any sports while in school?At the moment, no, but I used to play badminton.14: Do you prefer to read poetry, write poetry, or neither?Hmm, both I think. I like to write when I feel like shit.18: A random memory from my childhood:We were on a holiday in Spain and I lost my favorite stuffed animal (got it since when I was born and I still sleep with it haha), but luckily, we found it back later.20: What was the last thing you watched on tv?Hmm I think that would be Masterchef Australia, because my mom likes to watch cooking shows while we eat dinner haha.25: Do you wear glasses? If so, how long have you been wearing glasses?I wore glasses since I was... 11 years old I believe, but I switched to contacts when I was 15.34: Are you still figuring out who you are?Yeah. 37: What is word that you always seem to spell wrong?Hmmm I believe I always spell "wenkbrauw" (Dutch word for eyebrow) wrong and I don't even know if I spelled it right haha. It's never know whether it's wenkbrauw or wenkbrouw. Same goes for "enthausiast" (kinda looks like the English word). It's spelled enthousiast, but I always spell it like enthausiast. I bet there are probably more words, but I cant think of any more rn.43: How do you start a conversation?Well that's easy: I don't.Thanks for your questionssss! xxx