lmao every time i (re)read Imperial Uncle there’s something new to think about... spoilers for the endgame romance for the novel, but it’s kind of funny how the book (and author) is kinda infamous for having ‘ambiguous’ romantic plots, and i actually. kind of. dig that??? relationships are messy and they’re not always neatly shelved; there isn’t necessarily always a clear ‘real’ love interest in romance.
(though to be honest, i actually think Da Feng makes the ‘main’ love interests pretty clear in Imperial Uncle and Peach Blossom Debt... she always reserves the most lavish descriptions for them.
i think people complain because 1) she usually doesn’t introduce the ‘main’ LI until the other important characters have already appeared; in Peach Blossom Debt the real love interest doesn’t really show up until like. 9 chapters in? something like that. whereas the other LI has interacted with the MC quite a bit by that point, and in normal danmei logic it’d make sense for the other LI to get with MC. similarly, the LI that the MC of Imperial Uncle ends up with is only mentioned a couple of chapters in, while the other important characters have already interacted with the MC on-screen (though he’s also the first guy MC explicitly mentions being in love with -- even though the person he’s in love with is just a fantasy of what MC thinks the LI is like at the time)
2) she also uses 1st person in the three danmei books i’ve read by her. the information conveyed to the reader is limited by the narrator’s narrow point of view -- hell, one of the most enjoyable things about Imperial Uncle is to look at what MC isn’t saying, or what MC has misinterpreted, and figure out what’s actually going on. therefore, some of the character dynamics/backstories are intentionally concealed at first, either because the narrator doesn’t know, the narrator doesn’t want to think about it, or the narrator does not consider it important enough to talk about it in their internal narration.
3) there are always multiple love interests, and they’re usually all likeable or at least sympathetic, but do not necessarily get a happy romantic ending of their own. the level of reciprocation varies in the 3 books I’ve read: MC is only really ever interested in 1 LI in Peach Blossom Debt; MC is torn between the two LIs in Imperial Uncle (though the first guy he fell for is also the one he ends up with); and in Spring Once More it’s a harem ending lmao, though given where she chooses to end the story it’s bittersweet at best. since each LI is sympathetic and have their own compelling dynamic with the MC, you get a lot of people conflicted about whether they like the official pairing the most, or would rather the other LIs end up with the MC.)
and now to, imo, the most controversial shipping dispute of Imperial Uncle. discussions of potential incest.
i genuinely think Imperial Uncle is a book with romance, rather than a romance; while the MC’s romantic woes takes up a lot of his internal narration, the scene of actually getting together with the endgame LI is very, very understated. at its core, the novel is really about the burden of being a part of the royal family, of being unable to have normal family dynamics due to the politics involved in the position of being related to the emperor, of having your motives questioned due to who you’re related to. the most important relationship in the book is undoubtedly the one between the MC and his emperor-nephew, but it’s not a romantic relationship (at least not from the MC’s side).
however, because it’s a danmei, and the MC does agonize over his love life for a solid chunk of the book, some folks take ‘the most important relationship’ to automatically mean ‘the most important romantic relationship’. folks have argued that, because the MC cares about his emperor-nephew’s safety and is willing to make sacrifices to ensure that, it must mean that the MC is ~secretly in love~ with the emperor but cannot admit it due to the ~taboo~ aspect of it... because uhhh apparently romance is only reason why anyone would care about someone else???
like, while i think you can interpret the emperor’s feelings to possibly be ambiguously romantic (i personally don’t read it as romantic, but i can see why people come to that conclusion), i just. cannot see any interpretation where the MC’s feelings are romantic rather than familial; he thinks of him as a kid who’s forced to grow up way too fast, i really don’t see how people read romance into that sentiment. also: this is a reminder that the novel explores how royal family dynamics are inherently dysfunctional, where everyone can’t help but be paranoid about each other’s motives even if they’re a family and only have the best of intentions. incestuous romance is very much not the point.
(though to be fair, one of the LIs does turn out to be secretly related to the MC -- the MC’s father is the brother of the LI’s grandfather -- and the MC is distraught when he’s forced to confront it. That's the final nail in the coffin, and they do not end up together.)
anyway, it’s late and i’m losing my train of thought, but one of the reasons i enjoy Imperial Uncle despite its flaws because it’s a book with a romantic component, but the most important relationship portrayed in the books isn’t a romance. i think that’s pretty neat. not to mention the fact that MC is very much not on the same page as the rest of the cast for large chunks of the book, and the fact that MC is... kind of a liar in the sense that he has a tendency to think he’s in the right and innocent, even though once you step out from his POV you can see why other people don’t see it like that.
(like. “oh the other princes of my generation don’t like me bc they’re determined to see me as a threat to the emperor’s safety” while casually committing a breach of etiquette in a way that could be read as showing disrespect to the other princes and potentially the emperor... or being all “I’ve received less and less invitations to banquets at the palace over the years” while he declines every single one of his nephew’s invitations to come dine with him at the palace. gee i wonder why you don’t get invitations, dumbass)