What is domestic violence? This is the violent or aggressive behavior within the home, typically involving the violent abuse of a spouse or partner. We could also broaden this: Domestic violence is the willful intimidation, physical assault, battery, sexual assault, and/or other abusive behavior as part of a systematic pattern of power and control perpetrated by one intimate partner against another. It includes physical violence, sexual violence, psychological violence, and emotional abuse. Whenever you try to raise the issue of domestic violence, i hear almost every girl i know say something like, 'if a man hits me, am gone', You even read everywhere immediately women screaming, if he hits you once, just go away because he will do it again'...Are these women Wrong? Hell No! No woman should tolerate being hit by her partner. I just want to use this time tonight to shock some women and in retrospect educate those who think domestic violence is a vagina, by this i mean that, they think Only Women Experience Domestic Violence. Most women and even some men don't know that a high percentage of men are also abused. I can hear someone saying somewhere that for where? abuse ke, abuse ni...Well, men get abused too like women, so domestic violence is not only a female problem, its a man and woman problem. Well, i grew up in Africa, I actually saw women beat their husbands blue black. Yes, I saw women who were always the first to throw the first punch in an arguement. I saw it so many times that inbetween as a girl, i knew i had to be strong too and as a child, i used to even wonder why people bother to get married as couples usually fought publicly. Some men will come here to say, when the woman talks too much or is insulting you? Did she insult you with her hands? Didnt she use her mouth? You also insulting her with your mouth so why do you you think you now have to hit her? Mr Strong man and mr authourities...Ive not seen anything worst than abuse in a marriage. It stinks and its so dirty. In Africa, Central and West Africa where i spent my early years...#moreoncocowondersblog #infonaija#domesticviolence #shopmyenvicase💜💜💜 #cocowondersblog #link in my Bio