Okay, well, since we’re going to continue calling me a Nazi for some reason, I’m going to just take this opportunity to ask myself the question I asked yesterday: have people actually read these tweets, or are they being told they were bad without knowing why?
Just in case distortion is at play, here are the tweets in question.
Diana Tourjée (@DianaTourjee), Auigust 31 2019:
Sometimes it's funny when you’re the only trans person in a space where everyone is announcing their pronouns. Like it gets to you and a hush falls over the room and you can just like check your phone because only cis ppl need to be working on their pronouns game.
Natalie Wynn (@ContraPoints):
This has happened to me before in hyperwoke spaces. Like it's me and a bunch of cis women and we all have to go in a circle saying she/her because I'm there.
There's this paradox where I can go into a sports bar in North Carolina and be miss/ma'am all night no question, but in self-consciously trans-inclusive spaces I have to explain my pronouns and watch woke people awkwardly correct themselves every time they say "you guys."
I guess it’s good for people who use they/them only and want only gender neutral language. But it comes at the minor expense of semi-passable transes like me and that’s super fucking hard for us.
Y'all who are mad about this thread--I'm not saying we shouldn't have a norm of disclosing pronouns in trans-positive spaces, and I'm happy to give up having my gender assumed to help NB/non-passing trans ppl. But why can't I at least acknowledge this hurts more than helps me?
Not all trans people have the same needs, and some of the rules that trans people have taught woke cis people to follow lead to me be misgendered (“they”) and interrogated about my gender more often. Why can’t I point that out? Can’t a tran vent on Twitter.com ?
So let’s all take a minute here to actually read this thread. A thread in which Natalie points out that cis allies are the ones harming her, that they are doing so in the name of trans inclusiveness, and that Natalie was perfectly happy to let them because it still benefited other trans people and there’s no solution to the issue of “unknown vs neutral” gendering in the english language.
Let’s all really look at that, then ask ourselves why it is that a woman who works almost entirely in making progressivism, trans rights, and leftism more accessible to alienated people who wouldn’t otherwise hear those messages was run off of twitter for saying, “hey, this thing hurts me, and I’m happy to take that hit for y’all, but man, wouldn’t it be great if it didn’t have to?”
And then when we’re done looking at all that stop fucking calling my JOC (jewish of colour(tm) ) ass a fucking nazi for being unimpressed with the way she’s been treated over the course of all this, you twats.








