#ingrief

[xmissxnothiingx]

[penseeinoviie-blog]

I Want to be Not Ok!

Why, is the biggest question. sometimes do we realize that in motivating people we hurt them? wondering how? See when someone losses a dear one, a part from inside them dies and the thing that complicates is surroundings.

Love can be harmful sometimes. It is difficult to assign the title of who is our "own". I lost the love of my life... My husband my everything after just three years of marriage. Now people want me to be happy and chirpy as same. Is it practically possible?

Let people take their time to come out of the zone. But no, people want to show off their skills of motivating people. Dress well, comb hair, smile, don't recall the memories(as if it is in my hand), don't show people that you are sad. Do I do that on purpose? No, I am in grief and let me be in it.

I want to be mot ok! It is simple. Leave the person for some time and let them decide their direction. Why is it crucial to be fine at that moment? I have a baby too 1.6years old. I love being with him. He is my stress buster. I smile with me laugh with him, play with him.

If a person wants to be quiet what's the harm in it? Let them be. If you are really worried about them, don't force them, listen to them do not stop them, don't think that shouting at them to make them realise that this remorse is worthing nothing, is not going to work.

The most beautiful aspect of being a wordsmith is that I can speak whatever I want without any disturbance and get judged.

I Love such platforms and I am not ok... I want to be like that...

[ziarising]

#ingrief #thoughts #poetryquotes #grief #myheartisbreaking #writersquotes #faded #iwanttocry #heartbreak #ohmylove #unchainedmelody #mymindisatwar https://www.instagram.com/p/CQWyPQTDiOz/?utm_medium=tumblr

[enola504ever]

#blackout #ingrief #grieving 😔 #catchaontheflipside 🌠 #ripdrjohn (at New Orleans, Louisiana) https://www.instagram.com/p/ByZBkfPlKXg/?igshid=162ze5dimk7jd

[amusedjeningui]

"Remember: the time you feel lonely is the time you most need to be by yourself. Life's cruelest irony." ~Douglas Coupland, Shampoo Planet #instapic #instaphoto #iphone #nofilter #ingrief #inremembrance #pop #reading #bible #beinspired #lifeoflady #qotd #quote (at Old Kidapawan, North Cotabato, Philippines) https://www.instagram.com/p/Bv1dm1BJYNP/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=16hok772o36ag

[amusedjeningui]

"The loneliest moment in someone's life is when they are watching their whole world fall apart, and all they can do is stare blankly." ~ F. Scott Fitzgerald, The Great Gatsby #instapic #instaphoto #iphone #nofilter #ingrief #inremembrance #hearts #diy #beinspired #qotd #quote #lifeoflady (at Montevista) https://www.instagram.com/p/Bv1cQibpvme/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=jyqzh771jw6h

[amusedjeningui]

"Just for a moment...don't look for anything. Just BE." #screenshot #movie #ingrief #deepthoughts #musings #murderintheorientexpress #beinspired #lifeoflady #qotd #quote https://www.instagram.com/p/BuIMK4TgO7o/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=1dk5uyuoxo5j

[amusedjeningui]

"Happiness is not something ready-made. It comes from your own actions." Dalai Lama #instavid ##calm #serenity #onewiththewind #ingrief #inremembrance #pop #qotd #dalailama #iphone #nofilter #instagood #beinspired #lifeoflady (at Cotabato Memorial Cemetery) https://www.instagram.com/p/BsStnAjDkQR/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=125zqppj13lex