Ad 📷©️ to South Africa’s PPS for Professionals. My own narrative: I belong in the kitchen bec I need to cook meals for my children. Striving to cook healthy & edible meals for them every time. The kids are my job bec I’m a mother who loves to take care of their needs, nurture them, guide & love them to the best of my abilities. Oftentimes, I catch myself wondering if I’m doing a good job at it. At least I hope I’m doing a decent job, at the very least. I want to fix you bec I love u & I see ur potential to be a great person. Who better to do this than me, who will always, always look out for ur best interest. I always overthink everything bec I have a lot of fear in my heart. For ur safety, ur well-being, ur future. The world has become a scary place & I fear that I will not be able to protect & shield u from its harsh realities. I talk a lot bec I have so many things to tell. I wanted to share how my day went, the things I have seen & observe when I go out. The movies and books I wanted to see & read. Or just relay to u some mundane things I have experienced while being alive. I care about ur money bec I know the importance of saving up for the rainy days. I also know how hard u have worked to earn a living so I also encourage u to enjoy the fruits of ur labors. Travel as much as u can & learn about other cultures apart from ur own. Eat that chocolate cake. Try that new restaurant. U can always earn back what u spend, as long as u know ur limitations. I always need my space. Like the rest of humanity, I need to have my lone time to gather my thoughts, rejuvenate & reacquaint my self of who I truly am. My lone time is never about escaping my realities. It is always about getting a fresh perspective on things so I can always be the best version of myself, that u can continue to love & respect. I like to argue bec I have a mind of my own. I try not to be a push over bec I know I need to be heard too. And u have to understand that arguing with u is not my way to put u in the wrong. Rather to make u understand that it is also impt to listen to me & my reasons & it always hurt me when u shut me down & discount my feelings. #musings #lifeoflady https://www.instagram.com/p/Bu5KaohDQgI/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=59hkesthxbw3