48 QUESTIONS ABOUT LOVE FOR PHIL AND AKIRA
• Why do they care about each other? Phil cares about Akira because of the fact he gave him a feeling of having real family, Phil never had the warmth of a family. Akira cares about Phil because of the fact he finally had a place were he belonged. He never really fitted in, and with Phil he can be his caring sweet romantic self. • Why should your reader care about them? They are a loving couple who believes in each other and leave each other free too. Ofcourse little struggles are there. But there is unconditional love for both of the partners. • How do their friends feel about their relationship? They are a bit clingy, but very sweet to each other. • How do their families feel? Akira's family loves and adores Phil. Makes Akira happy, and that's what is most important. Phil's family (read his dad) is finally okay with Phil being with Akira. But still has struggles to accept for the full 100%. Phil's mom likes Akira. • What do they dislike about each other? Akira: Phil can be too generous sometimes. Phil: disliking something from Akira? Ehm, he can be too sweet and naive sometimes. • What do they argue about? Miko 🤣 • What do they do together? Everything. • How often do they have sex? Not as much as before they got Aimee, but at least once a week they will find a moment together. • What is their sexual dynamic? It's very balanced out, mostly Phil is the somewhat dominant type, but he also can be some more submissive when Akira feels self-assured. He likes that in Akira. • Who initiates sex most often? I would say Phil the most, he is the most cheeky one mostly, but Akira isn't totally innocent in initiating it too. • How physically affectionate are they? Yes. • How do they act in public vs in private? In my universe, the boys can be out in public with each other without harm. In public they are less clingy but always drawn to each other. To calmly only hold hands and cute small kisses. Or just standing closely with gentle touches. In private well.. it's not called fluff for a reason right? • What is their favourite kind of kiss? A desired kiss (you know, mouth to mouth with a little tongue sometimes) • Who gets their way most often? Phil 😂 stubborn thing. • Where was their first date? In Phil's apartment • How often do they go on dates? With a little babygirl it's hard, but when mommy Kibo is there they try to go out a little. So every two weeks? • Do they live together? Almost since meeting. • How long was their flirting phase? It’s neverending <3 • How do they sleep when they're together? Phil is a deep and fast sleeper and Akira a light one. Akira is mostly the one who always wakes up to Aimee crying or sleeps less. • Who is the most clingy? I tend to say Phil, he mostly initiates touches. But Akira is like the clingy monkey who hangs onto Phil. • Do they steal each others clothes? Phil is Akira's personal stylist. So yes, he pushes Akira to wear his clothing 🤣 • Why did they choose each other? A connection that fits. (My sims game put them together) • What is their biggest problem? Getting enough sleep with a newborn baby? • How do their jobs/education affect their relationship? Phil ofcourse got his dreamjob as a fashion stylist and owner of a fashion platform website but it takes a lot of time through the week. His time is limited to be together with Akira. At home he mostly is thinking about work or even works a little on his platform online. I maybe don't show much of this, but yes, he is kinda obsessed with it. • Do they share the same music taste? Somewhat, Akira likes somewhat quieter music (singer songwriter songs) than Phil does. But they both just love the regular pop-music. • Why did they meet? Because it was destined. • If they aren't together yet, why not? Stupid question. They need to be. • What if the biggest challenge they have to overcome? Being apart from each other. • What is their most noticeable physical difference? Akira is the skinny and small one with some 'asian' roots (but born and raised in San My). And Phil is the somewhat bigger straight slight olive tinted body from Oasis Springs (I would call him mediterinian) • What are their opinions on marriage? Yes. I do. • What are their opinions on children? Enriching our lives so much. • Is their relationship healthy? Why/why not? Yes. They value each other the way they are. They accept the way the other is. • How do their past relationships affect them? Akira never really had a close long relationship before. But maybe never really fell in love with the other half. This with Phil was the first time that happened and he fell hard and was kind of surprises about his feeling. But Akira always learned to follow his heart, and so he did. When Phil is in love, he throws himself all the way in. And that's always returning to him later when it doesn't work out. When that happens he feels it's all his fault and he really thinks he is doomed. • Do they love each other, or are they in love? Yes. • Why should your readers root for them? That's up to you 🤗 why do you root for them? • Do they both put an equal amount of effort into the relationship? Oh yes, I think Akira sometimes put a lot of effort in little surprises and organising a day out/date. But Phil will be always doing his best to please or help Akira. He always stands ready for Akira when needed. The other way around too. Akira stands up for Phil if someone hurts Phil. • Who do they turn to when their relationship has problems? Akira will turn to his mom. He is a mommy-boy Phil will mourn in selfdoubt first, but probably will turn to Tami (his sister). Or Tami will come to him. • Who does the most mundane household tasks? Akira. He is the stay at home dad now. But before, it was a good balance. Phil is the one who does laundry most of the time, because clothing is his life ofcourse. Akira loves cooking, so the kitchen is his. • What do they do when the other is mad? If Phil is mad about something from Akira, if that happens, Akira walks away. If Phil is mad at something else, Akira tries to neutralise his angry thoughts a little bit. Phil is a bit stubborn, so that is a challenge sometimes. Akira isn't mad quickly, but when he is, you have to watch out. I think Phil should run 🤣 • How do their flaws clash? I think when Akira is naive and Phil is in self doubt they can end up in a negative spiral I think? • Why do you enjoy writing them? Because they are so full of love. Love is what driving me. Love is my fuel. They give me life. • What small quirks do they like about each other? Akira: when he pulls at my shirt, if it's just not sitting totally right. Or when he makes sure his hair is sitting right always and makes sure it's the right color of blue. Or when he tells me he will definitely watch the whole movie with me, but still falls asleep during them. Phil: Akira can sing very well, but always when he secretly sings under the shower or to Aimee and I come in, he stops. I told him so many times he doesn't need to stop. It's cute that he is so doubtful of his own singing. • What would a stranger think if they saw them out together? Ugh, what a clingy couple.. get a room 😂 • How do they show the other that they love them? Having full interest on what the other did the day, being there for each other when they need it, helping each other if they need it. • What made them fall in love? From the first moment they had an instant connection. For Akira the blue eyes which stared at his soul when he was questioned for his interview. For Phil the softness Akira had from the first moment. The fact he wanted to help Phil doing his work without wanting something back for it. That small connection was immediately when they had their first meetup after. The fact Akira was 'forced' to sleep the night at Phil's made the connection only bigger. And from then they were basically inseparable. • Have they ever took a break? Breaks? No. • What was their biggest fight about? Miko and a car as a gift. • What do they give as gifts? Akira loves giving small gestures as notes, roses, a day out, his favorite perfume, a bag of Phil's favorite sweets. Phil gives the generous big things. A new car, a beachhouse, a very expensive treatment to get a baby 😬
