#instead of thinking

[beastiesandsundries]

Skyrim (or any game, tbh) Modding Hot Take: if you are gonna be downloading/using mods in your game, you have to be willing to learn new skills to customize your experience...

✨️For Yourself✨️

Mod authors are doing this for free. You are not a customer. They are not a service. Before you report a bug, take time beyond uninstalling/reinstalling to use other tools to troubleshoot to make sure it's not a conflict in your own load order. If it is a bug, then using those tools will at least help you make a useful report. Learn to make your own patches. Get familiar with xEdit. Make your own outfit/object distributions with Skyptcher and Base Object Swapper. Figure out how to add HDT-SMP physics to clothing and hair YOURSELF. Modding is its own hobby, and learning new skills is half the fun. You owe it to yourself to take the time to think for yourself.

[rambunctiouslyram]

ugh dude its so bad i feel more affection for my therapist than i ever did for my parents

[atricksterproblem]

My imagination is broken.

I can’t seem to make my own ship work right for me. It’s like I can only picture it being the way things have been for me before in a similar situation, which was terrible and is not making this a useful coping mechanism just now. Which really defeats most of the purpose.

I’ve put off posting about it because it’s such a stupid problem to have, but. I don’t know. I can’t seem to do anything with it but generate angst, and that’s ridiculous. I haven’t stopped loving him at all. I guess I just can’t picture him loving me back, or at least not the same way. I’m not entirely sure why this is only a problem now. I guess I look around at everybody else who loves him, and then at me, and I just can’t make myself believe I’d ever be anything but last in his life. 

Is there such a thing as brain renovations? I think I need some.

[anumbgapingblackhole]

I dont know what else to say.

[adrianasunderworld]

Started reading one of the ever after high books, because why not, and it's the collection of short stories. So far I find it very funny, yet understandable, that they felt the need to repeat the fact that there is nothing incestuous going on in ever after. There are several prince charmings that are all unrelated. And even go so far as to show Briar having little brothers that follow the charming trait naming theme, implying they will be prince charmings as well. They saw everyones concerns and assumptions when the series was first released and had to do damage control.

[putchgoosit]

kim jong un: insufferable failson who just wants to game and watch basketball, gets pulled out of school for being an underachiever

korean friendship association ass internet communist: ah yes. this is the immortal science of marxism-leninism and juche. stalins soviet new man made flesh. critical support :)

[yessoupy]

I assume those anons interpreted your interest in sexual politics of ancient Greece and the kind of poetic way you wrote about that Harry pic that you find such dynamics cool and sexy. I thought so too at first (being non native speaker I sometimes misunderstand stuff), good that it wasn't your intention

I think you ought to re-read that piece from beginning to end. I make it clear IN the piece that that is NOT what I believe.

[kitten-intern]

In your opinion, what is the most effective way to feel happier?

what helped me a lot was just thinking about positive things about myself and saying them out loud, even if i dont believe them at the time

idk that usually doesnt work with people but if worked with me

also thinking about the things i do have and being grateful for them