Wow, maybe your problem is more with yourself then children. Many ppl do not have children, there is no longer a culture expecting you to have kids in fact it's the opposite now. Many ppl don't have kids or have very few. I have quite a few friends that have your point of view until they spend some time with a kid. Do what's best for you but don't judge others that don't agree or a lifestyle you don't understand and haven't experienced.
Ahahaha, oh my god, you’re fucking precious.
“In fact, it’s the opposite now.” Ah yes, that must be why I keep getting messages on the daily from people talking about the pressure put on them to have children to please others.
Also, your bullshit of “I have quite a few friends that have your point of view until they spend some time with a kid” is literally one of the grossest things about the culture of children.
This idea that “You’ll change your mind~” and “One day it’ll happen~” is so unbelievably horrendous, it sickens me.
First, it assumes that I and so many others have no idea about how our own fucking minds work. Oh no, it must be all those ~hormones~ in us throwing us off, because obviously if we just met some kids, we’d know our life duty is to start popping them out like Christmas crackers.
Second, it sets up this idea that one day something will ~just happen~ and we’ll have and want kids, which is so steeped in rape culture I can’t even begin to describe it.
Hey, here’s a hot tip. Maybe instead of dishing out some shitty advice of “don’t judge others”, you should take a look at yourself and see if you’re doing it. If nothing else, don’t fucking come into someone’s inbox and taunt about how we’ll just ~change our minds~~ once we learn how precious children are.
Spoiler alert: a fuckton of us already know kids, thanks. It’s sort of a big incentive to not have them.
Not so kindly, fuck the fuck off.
