Rant
It's kind of insulting to me to see the person I try my best on to take time upon myself to make that person feel better and it takes longer because I am a worrier. I worry a lot. It bothers me to see that person only try once and never try harder the second time. Of course, honesty is our best solution so I do become honest if not stubborn to be honest. The problem is, I cannot address my problem if it cannot be fixed due to the restraints that person I'm with doesn't think they can do anything. I don't blame them. Their low self-esteem, low confidence and lack of determination in certain situations diminishes the appeal to try to find a solution. However, that person will only try if they are forced to. I've seen this before and I have tried. Yet, that person takes it upon a dramatic level where it feels like it could end them in any moment. Yes, you can be sensitive towards the words you're saying but that person will not try anymore due to the fact that person feels no reason to. (I'm sorry if this rant feels a little mean or anything but I just feel like people shouldn't give up just because they think they can't. Unless, of course, that they literally can't then that's a reason to do so.) P.S. I don't hate that person. I just feel like that person needs to realize that I do appreciate their help but sometimes trying harder makes things better in the situation that can make each other feel more happy.