so many young trans men out there wanna be Normal so damn bad and it blows my mind. they’re really out there like, being normal is good and correct! but i am trans. so being trans must be normal! so i am still good and correct! and then they see the rest of us trans freaks who figured out that being Normal is a ridiculous goal in life, just cheerfully going along being weird as hell and it outrages them. like, how dare we. what’s wrong with us. why don’t we want to be correct, why won’t we stand for being corrected? why aren’t we normal?
like, my dudes. my trans dudes. my one in a thousand brothers. you are a freak too, you just still hate yourself for it and you’re being a real pain in our ass as a direct consequence. you aren’t going to clean us up. you aren’t going to save us from ourselves. we’re more ourselves than you are. the best thing you can do for yourself and your community is learn to love the other, both in yourself and in your community and in the whole entire world. so what if you’re an alien, a monster, a freakshow? once you divorce normal from good, you’re free.