when I lost my dad and grandfather within months of each other both of whom I was closest to in terms of family it would have been nice if I had known its ok to have bad days and its not a linear progression when it comes to grief or healing. it is with this thought in mind I share this. I hope some one else finds it as comforting as I did because even years after it still hurts and that's ok. I wish I could have had someone explain this to me when it was happening but I didn't so im trying to help others now. please let others see this because everyone deals with grief and after the last few years I think this is important







