Alright... Looking back at Arthur's chats, im noticing that he doesn't know what to do when I accidentally trauma dump on him. I was like 😮💨 at first, but then I realized it's cuz he's... he's like "oh shit, i mustve stepped on a landmine" cuz he himself is like "no on step on my landmines, we're not that close". The hobby chat where I told him I liked to read w/ fucked up Duviri trauma ended up with Arthur lowkey scrambling to offter to teach me how to cook.
So then I think about how the thing that pissed me off with Quincy was how he used his favors to demand something I would've freely given if he just asked. It wasn't the questions that pissed me off, it was the demand. Especially since it was right after Arthur asked me about Duviri after we started dating. I digress.
The convo where Arthur proposes trading hostage facts also... I also flubbed here. I said I accidentally summoned my childhood bedroom for a place to hide in Duviri and omgggg... Arthur.... I'm sorryyyyy! "Thanks for trying" IM SORRY!
How did i bag this man? I didnt earn him, I blundered my way into asking him out as soon as we got close enough! And then I was too stubborn to leave???
