#itsinthepast

[sunburntaloe]

I let go of all outcomes and allow my life to unfold naturally. 🖤 ⠀⠀⠀⠀ .⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ .⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ .⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ #qoutes #qoutesoftheday #qoutesofinstagram #ladyboss #bosslady #bloggerlove #bloggergirl #vibes #goodvibs #positivethinking #positivevibes #spirituality #soul #universe #selflove #selfcare #zen #wisdom #wisewords #dowhatyoulove #itsinthepast #loveyourself #findyourself #beyourself #acceptyourself #doyou #bossbabe #lifestyleblogger #affirmations #affirmationoftheday

[bawarementally]

Seriously, try it... #letitgo #itsinthepast #yesterdayisgone #todayisanewday #thinkpositive https://www.instagram.com/p/BsAhUhvnYDz/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=1m30wzz07g7q8

[sunburntaloe]

Stop wishing. Start doing. 🖤 ⠀⠀⠀⠀ .⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ .⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ .⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ #quotes #quotesoftheday #quotesofinstagram #ladyboss #bosslady #bloggerlove #bloggergirl #vibes #goodvibs #positivethinking #positivevibes #spirituality #soul #universe #selflove #selfcare #zen #wisdom #wisewords #dowhatyoulove #itsinthepast #loveyourself #findyourself #beyourself #acceptyourself #doyou #bossbabe #lifestyleblogger #affirmations #affirmationoftheday

[sunburntaloe]

Be a pineapple. 🍍🖤⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀ .⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ .⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ .⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ #quotes #quotesoftheday #quotesofinstagram #ladyboss #bosslady #bloggerlove #bloggergirl #vibes #goodvibs #positivethinking #positivevibes #spirituality #soul #universe #selflove #selfcare #zen #wisdom #wisewords #dowhatyoulove #itsinthepast #loveyourself #findyourself #beyourself #acceptyourself #doyou #bossbabe #lifestyleblogger #affirmations #affirmationoftheday

[myfavoritehigh]

Forget about me already!

[therobricketts-blog]

#itsashes #itsinthepast #itsashes #howmuchdofrequentdliermilescostnowadayZZZZZZZZZZZ #tellmeanotherwisetaletheresnowwhite #southafricamate #anotherone #lol #drakequotes #andrewmcmahoninthewilderness (at Laguna Canyon)

[love-laugh-learn-live-blog]

An uncontrollable Response

Last night my new partner was playing with my hair. My hair was tied up tight in a pony tail. He went to run his fingers through my hair. I flinched. I reacted in a way I never thought I would. For a second it felt like my heart stopped.

I got really annoyed at myself and went quiet. I don’t think he noticed me flinching as we were watching tv but I noticed it. I knew I had done it and I got really frustrated.

Frustrated at the fact that my husband (soon to be ex-husband) has caused me to respond in this way. Frustrated that I thought I had moved on from that part of my life.

Once I calmed down and was thinking things through properly I know rationally that I’m not going to go through that again and my new partner would never lay a finger on me. I completely trust him with my life so I just have to realise that after something traumatic or something that shaped your life so much, you have to realistically accept that your body/mind will respond to certain situations unconsciously.

He played with my hair later on in the evening and I was completely fine. I just laid and enjoyed it. After all it is very relaxing and calming.

Much love xxx

[kenziefoster]

"When the past calls, let it go to voicemail. It has nothing new to say."

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