1 and 17 for the Pride Asks!
1. Who did you first come out to, if anyone?
ooh this is a fun one because i came out like three times:
1. i actually don’t remember the first person i came out to as bi? it was on reddit (i used to have a reddit account and in my defense i was like 15 at the time) and it might have been owen but it also might have been someone else? i wouldn’t be surprised if it was owen
2. when i was questioning my gender back in 2015 and identified as nonbinary for a while the first person i came out to was owen, but that was more of a mutual process than me coming out tbh. he was like “are you sure you’re cis” and that started a very fun process of discovery
3. and again the first person i came out to as trans was owen, and then my therapist, and then theo. all within the span of like one or two days iirc
17. Distinguished, functional, or disaster?
no seriously i’m all of them simultaneously which i guess puts me closer to functional than anything else