fr!! and it drives me insane how often I see "Tim's parents aren't abusive, just neglectful"
AS IF NEGLECT ISN'T ABUSE?????
like the fandom exaggerates it for sure and definitely adds a lot of physical and verbal abuse that isn't canon, that's fandoms with everything, but that doesn't mean there was NO mistreatment going on there
Yeah... Neglect being abuse that people don't see is a big thing. Especially if you've got a kid like Tim, who had material comforts, so there's not necessarily physical signs of neglect. But our brains REALLY suffer from a lack of social interaction! Even extremely introverted people do need socialization, and that's extra true for children.
Also, yes, I agree that fandom adds additional stuff! Tim is a popular target for whump, and his sad childhood is a natural jumping off point for fan creators. I've seen a lot of hcs around his childhood that lean into physical and more obvious verbal abuse.
However: there is verbal/emotional abuse literally in the comics. It's canon that Tim and Jack had a basically non-existent relationship before Janet's death, and Jack attempting to change that (on his terms and not Tim's) is a significant story arc. It's canon that Jack sent him to boarding school rather than spend the time to actually address the challenges his son was having. It's canon that Jack essentially blackmailed Tim into quitting Robin stuff! That's extremely fucked up.
It's not fans making Tim a woobie to point out that he was severely neglected, then manipulated by his father into having a version of their relationship that benefitted Jack and not Tim.