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First you need a gem at the core of your being. Then you need a body that can turn into light. Then you need a partner you can trust with that light.
INDIGO WITCHES
by Jasper Lipton
There’s a difference between plain old ‘blue’ and indigo. Good indigo has a richness and a shine to it; an iridescence that connotes sea and sky. Good indigo makes you dream of mortars and pestles in small cottages; of scoured deserts; of midnight and flowers and green, growing things. It’s a color that’s full of life, and full of power. It’s my firm belief that no self-respecting witch would ever wear black. Oh, no; there’s no better color for getting down and sky-clad with the local coven than indigo.
FIVE GIFT IDEAS: JASPER LIPTON
Jasper Lipton is a rare individual. He is Styleforum’s editor-in-chief, has been to Pitti Uomo more times than he has neckties, Instagrams as child_of_scorn (and its mate disdain?), and has even written for the No Man blog. And yet he gives every appearance of being a well-adjusted person. He once even mentioned having a girlfriend, although I’m pretty sure that was fake. Anyway, here are his gift picks from the No Man store.
1) Document Shawl Collar Robe Coat.
Jasper’s Notes: I am all about outerwear like this. It looks great, it’s warm, and it’s impressively cozy. Since I skew towards the streetwear end of the style spectrum, I’d wear it with a long, band-collar shirt (hey, Camoshita!), and some trousers and shoes that would take the louche silhouette and just roll with it (Geller flight pants, I’m looking at you). If you’re gonna be a #CozyBoy, you might as well go all-out. Wear it over a tee and you’re gonna like the way you look. I Guarantee It.
THE DELIGHTS AND DANGERS OF WEARING WHITE
by Jasper L
If you’re a regular patron of No Man Walks Alone, my guess is that you’re a man who enjoys the curiosities of clothing and style as much as the clothing itself. And, that being the case, you’ve probably read one of the innumerable articles on the invention of the “No White After Labor Day” rule (feel free to Google) for tailored clothing. I, however, am going to ignore the very existence of that rule, since 1) Who cares? and 2) I don’t wear suits and ties anyway.
CLOTHES BEYOND BEDSHEETS: AN INTERVIEW WITH GHOSTFACE
by Jasper L
It’s rare to find someone who blends styles, silhouettes and designers with as much whimsy and as much ease as Styleforum’s ghostface. He has an incredible eye both for texture and for color - and he’s perhaps unsurprisingly erudite, which comes across in his responses to interview questions as well as in the way he dresses.
What drew you to clothing? Did you have a long gestation period, or did you roll out of bed one day and think, "You know what, I need a change"?
I’ve always been drawn to beautiful natural materials, weird textures, clean lines, and organic shapes. The earliest manifestations of that attraction drew me to alpine mountain environments and, when back in civilization, to amateur interior design. In both cases I was seeking and finding a certain kind of aesthetic experience, a sense of harmony that included elements of risk and imperfection. It was only natural for this interest to spread eventually to clothing, since choosing what to put on our bodies is just a more intimate, direct version of shaping our personal environments. But I only made that transition in a deliberate way five or so years ago. I suppose that does make it a long gestation period.
One of the things that No Man Walks Alone has discussed in the past is dressing in a manner that suits your context. Is this something that you consider?
Absolutely. I’ve been working on a Ph.D. in philosophy over the past few years, so I have no real constraints on what I wear. I could dress in a folded bed sheet and no one would tell me to stop. But I do dress differently on the days when I’m teaching, or when I’m presenting a paper, than on the days when I’m just writing in a café. One part of that choice comes from the recognition that clothes have meanings for the people with whom you’re interacting, however contingent those meanings may be (2000 years ago, of course, a single sheet of fabric would have been a fine uniform for a day of cultivating young minds). Another part is that dressing within a given set of constraints can allow for different types of creativity or playfulness than you could achieve with no constraints whatsoever.
You’re very happy to play with colors - sometimes many at once. How do you make sure you don’t come out looking too busy?
Hmmm, I guess I just look in the mirror and make a judgment? I’m something of a minimalist at heart, so I normally want colors and textures to complement each other such that everything hangs together in a kind of organic, coherent whole.
Let’s go the other direction - you also seem quite at home in black. What place do black garments hold in your wardrobe?
Yeah, black is very central to my wardrobe. I wear black pants probably four out of five days. That’s partly just to keep the color palette from becoming overwhelming. But I will also wear all black, or something close to it, when I want to emphasize form or silhouette. Black doesn’t have quite the same cultural cache it once did—identifying the outsider, the rebel, the mysterious stranger—since so many regular style-conscious people have recognized how good it can look, but it is still a very powerful “color,” aesthetically speaking.
Do you have a general approach or focus when you’re getting dressed?
I’m sure I dress according to mood to some extent, though I think that operates as a kind of subconscious filter rather than a kind of conscious, deliberate method. I’ll wear more colorful or experimental things on days when I’m feeling more outgoing, and vice versa.
Is there a particular set of inspirations - a time period, a design movement - that you look towards for inspiration?
A lot of my Comme des Garcons jackets reference 19th century peasant-wear, but with a Japanese twist. There’s a strong connection here to wabi-sabi—a kind of weathered elegance, an embrace of imperfection and impermanence—and also a reference to a time and place when people had a different, perhaps more intimate relationship with nature and with personal objects. I’m also interested in various kinds of monastic uniforms. On the other side of things, I’m also drawn to the work of designers like Helmut Lang and Rick Owens that seems to reference a near-future dystopia. There’s also a connection to impermanence here, though in a more pessimistic vein.
DE-CODED DRESS
by Jasper L
You’ve cultivated your business wardrobe, you’ve spent hours and hours matching fabrics and taking measurements and reading up on tailoring traditions, and at last - at last! - you’ve nailed it. You cut a fine figure at the office, you wear a suit like a second skin, your ties are complementary and oft-complimented. But Friday afternoon leaves you at a loss, and by the time it’s the season for barbecues and weekend brunches (or wintry evenings on the town), you’ve backed yourself into a corner, unsure what to do when not dressing for business. There is a vast world that lies between hard science of business attire and the clockwork slump of chino shorts, old college tees and flip-flops. It’s less prescriptive than the Church of the Suit and Tie, less focused on rules and regulations, but equally enthralling, and equally full of beauty and expression.
Constraints, such as those we might find in the office, can allow room for personality and can even allow a measure of creativity to blossom. However, I find myself at my most expressive - and by extension, my most stylish - when I’m not clothing myself in order to impress or to fulfill an institutionalized requirement, when I’ve got the time and the desire to think about and enjoy what I’m wearing. It’s equal parts self-expression and self-discovery. Yes, we all have to make tradeoffs for the sake of social convention, but we all wear a multitude of masks as we walk through life, and the one you wear while at the office isn’t the only one that defines you.
There is no single measure of stylistic success - style is less an entrance exam than it is a way of being. The pursuit of a single ideal - whether in art, in business, or in dress - can lead to stagnation as often as it leads to genius. Weekend clothes are cool for all the same reasons that work clothes are cool. They can make you look and feel great, they can be well-made, they can help you present yourself as you want others to see you, and they can open your eyes to new aesthetic traditions and new interpretations of beauty. You can get as much pleasure out of wearing weekend clothes as work clothes. In the pursuit of - and because of - those pleasures, you may find a new aesthetic, and embracing that pursuit may teach you something about yourself.