I have learnt so much from the day that I realised I would rather not “do life alone”. I became stronger when I realised my strength could be shared that many stood to gain from it, I became humbled when I realised that my strength in fact came from others. That they are those who see my weakness, cast it aside and through their strength, love me and that is where my strength comes. It is through shared experiences that we know that we are not alone. It is through sharing experiences that our loneliness disappears. When we come together and are open and honest with each other, that is when we realise that the torment within us is not our own, that is when we realise that the sadness is not our own to bear. That is when we realise that many want to celebrate us and what we need to do is step out in faith and find those desiring to share their lives with us.
That is what I desire, through my experiences I want to help someone realise that they are not alone. I want to be honest, I want to be exposed so that someone realises that someone, somewhere enjoys drinking rum and that does not make them an alcoholic. That someone out there is really trying to figure it out, trying to decide if politics is the way to go or if marriage is the answer or if it is time to pluck my eyebrows. Therefore Just For You, who ever you are, I am doing this, Just For You I am going to try and encourage you. I will not pretend to have it figured out but maybe together through sharing, through being open maybe we can. If I can make one persons less lonely then this is already a success.
