The thing about falling in love with someone with tons of flaws is that they're all fixable. And that if they care as much as you do, they'll fix them for you. It's not about accepting someone for who they are, necessarily, but accepting them for who they are and who they can become.
If your significant other is obeise, and they know you'd like them to be skinnier.. even though you accept that they are over-weight, they will try to change that just to show how much they care. Too skinny? They'll eat more and work out. Your boyfriend an asshole? If he gives a flying fuck, he'll work on being a nicer person. For you.
If doing something for YOU isn't enough for you, then remember that they're doing it for themselves too.
Thats what's real. Whats fake is the one night stands and the unthoughtful relationships.
Even if you're the "flawless" one in someone elses eyes, there's always room for improvement. While change is so uncertain.. it's nothing to be afraid of.
Becuse no matter what, change will find you. Like the tide, it will bring you random things. Good, bad, better, worse. You decide. How you waste your life.
