When or if I started shipping it: at some point during the first book. I don’t remember the exact moment of “this is adorable”, but it definitely happened somewhere in there. And then the ending of book 3 was “well this is gonna be the thing that breaks me” and it kinda spiraled from there.
Who wakes the other one up with kisses: they do not do that, ever, because there’s a risk it might be triggery for Joss and so not worth finding out.
Who is the morning person/night person: hmmm. I wanna say they’re both morning people.
Who is the romantic one: Luke. The end of twenty-odd years of pining means he has that length of time to make up for, which in turn means... guh, such a cliché sometimes but it’s all completely genuine and Jocelyn kinda loves it.
Who is the more cuddly one: they’re about even, but I see Joss being a tiny bit more tactile so maybe a slight edge towards her.
Who cooks: ideally, neither of them. They’re both decent but it’s not an interest and half the time it’s not practical time-wise and what I’m trying to say here is that it’s a good thing they live in one of the best cities for takeout // delivery food in the world. (Which, may or may not be an actual fact but I’m pretty sure it is soooo.)
Favorite nonsexual activity: cuddling counts as nonsexual, right?
Their favorite place to be together: their house, on the rare nights it’s quiet // neither their surrogate kids nor the baby werewolves are in crisis.
Any traditions: not really?
Their “song”: ... I will get back to you on that.
What they do for each other on holidays: small heartfelt gifts, nothing too expensive or showy but stuff they think each other will like.
Where did they go for their honeymoon: the country house. Ten days without any contact with the outside world. Total perfection.
Where did they first meet: at school, somehow. They were like twelve and nothing bonds two people better than getting their asses handed to them by the same people. (Full disclosure - headcanon originally by @annaclaresawyer.)
Any pets: nope. Joss threatens to get a cat at one point, but strangely enough, cats do not like werewolves so that idea dies after one trip to the animal shelter.
What do they fight over: each other’s bad emotional coping skills.
Do they go on vacations, if so where: nope. They’re not vacation people. They want a quiet life right where they are and they’ve definitely earned it and they stay there.