a-box-of-cats replied to your post “today i listened to the biggest asexual erasure bullshit in class...”
oh was that what they meant? i thought they were saying that the reason ppl are so scared of demis is that we're taught that sex should be only after establishing a relationship. yet another instance of me not understanding allos...
i dont understand how that would be a good reason for being scared of demis anyway? (also how is one scared of demis? its like being scared of a toblerone, both cause no threat to you) like that is not a legitimate reason to be wary of someone. do you get scared of people who wait to cross the street only when the little green man comes on? do you get scared of people who wait to watch an entire show until it comes on netflix so they can binge? no! so why would you be scared of someone who waits until marriage? its their fucking choice!